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Life's "can't get over", is the weak man's excuse

In every dilemma that you think you can't survive there is a hidden opportunity for life.

By Vernon K WolfePublished 2 years ago 3 min read
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The thing is, as long as life is not extinguished, even if heavy by natural and man-made disasters, temporarily suppressed, there will be a day to raise the head.

There are no hurdles in life that cannot be overcome, only people who cannot think.

Thinking that there is no way out, into the thinking of the blind spot, ignoring that there is more than one road, this road does not go, you can go in another direction.

Many times, the so-called "can not pass", but is a weak person to their excuses.

Instead of giving yourself a reason to avoid failure, it is better to force yourself and bravely face that one after another can, with persistent efforts, for their blog a better life.

1, put down your face, to break through the self

We all know that face is not worth a few dollars, but dare to put down but very few.

One by one, keeping the so-called face, pushing themselves to the edge, thinking that it is difficult to live, but never thinking that this is self-inflicted.

As Yishu said: "Face is the hardest thing for a person to put down, and the most useless thing. The more you care about it, the heavier it will be, the more difficult it will be for you to move."

The face that can't be put down will become a burden after a long time.

And the road of life is not easy to walk, the weight of the road is even harder to walk.

Instead of letting yourself be "face" bound, it is better to put down the face and face the difficulties and obstacles of life.

Like playing a game that, one by one level slowly plays, and eventually breaks through the difficulty to enter the next stage.

Even though it is difficult to put down the face at the beginning, as long as the first step, the next road is relatively not too difficult to go, so want to break through the current difficulties, we must dare to put down the face, or say more efforts, are just empty words, cheat yourself, can not cheat others.

Because you can not face, and give up the opportunity to succeed, waiting for it will only be a succession of failures.

Only dare to put down your face, to do what should be done, to break through the self, dare to survive one predicament after another, to achieve a better self.

2、Only if you dare to push yourself, there will be more possibilities in life

Stephen Covey once said, "What hurts us is not the tragedy itself, but the response to the tragedy."

In the face of tragedy, if you have not tried to work, and then give up, then how can there be a chance of reversal, waiting for only a tragedy on top of tragedy?

Very often, it is not fate that torments you, but you give up on yourself.

There is an opportunity for change, but not yet try to give up, thinking that it is in time to stop, but is in the escape.

A single escape will only make the road of life narrower and narrower, forcing yourself to no way out.

So, instead of sitting on the sidelines, you should force yourself.

Do not push yourself, you will never know how strong your ability is.

The human capacity is unlimited, and only by constantly breaking through can, we achieve better.

In the 100-meter race, the seemingly unbreakable result, is one athlete after another, constantly pushing themselves to break through the limitations of the battle, so that the so-called impossible becomes possible.

There is nothing impossible in life, only not hard enough to work for themselves.

Only daring to force themselves to find a different self, will make life more possible.

3.

Do not be afraid to try because you are afraid to lose.

Sometimes, losing is not necessarily a bad thing.

Only if you try, you can know how far you are from winning and lay the foundation for the next success.

That seemingly obstructive dilemma is a millstone to make yourself better.

Only by daring to face difficulties and forcing yourself to work hard can you keep breaking through.

Life is not an effort to win once, it is bound to experience countless times of losing and winning, to hone a better self.

Force yourself a not necessarily win, but do not force yourself will certainly lose.

As long as you grit your teeth and persevere, survive that suffering, again and again, to be able to the bittersweet.

Maybe the process is painful, but it's all worth it. In the future, you will thank yourself for constantly forcing yourself to work hard now.

Only if you work harder than others, you can get more possibilities in life.

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