Lead the way by a nobleman, walk by yourself

The road of life should be how to go, often no one can tell us a clear direction.

And people who have driven cars often know that when going to an unfamiliar place, as long as you drive along the precise navigation route of your cell phone, there are naturally not many points of worry along the way.

Each of us, in the bones of each person, is often eager to follow such a clear road to the other side of our lives.

In the primeval forest trekking people, often the most fear is to lose their way, sometimes even bumping around, often can not find the exit or even aggravate their own risk, if this time there is a guide around, just like the Buddha in the world, the natural way out of life at a glance.

When we are at a loss, we often need someone to guide us, but after that, we need to rely on our own lives to move forward alone and walk on our own.

When we feel that fate is not going in life, especially when we are deep at the bottom of life, the heart is often longing for the presence or help of a nobleman.

But what is a nobleman in life, everyone's understanding is naturally different, it can be said that there are many different opinions.

In many people's one-sided perception, it is often customary to think that the so-called noblemen are those who can provide material help, solve the work, or even worry, after all, such help is often an immediate one step.

But such a nobleman is not necessarily the real nobleman, life's road is so long, can better stand alone this is precisely what we need is our ability and virtue, a person without excellent survival skills and wisdom, even if sometimes lucky to get a nobleman to help some, may not be able to better all the way forward.

So we think that the so-called real people in life should belong to those who can help you to open the bounds of thought, point you in the right direction, can make you clear, and gradually find a clear path in the lost life.

If you do not want to change in this life, no one can often make you change, insight into human nature often knows that we can change our own is often our own, as the so-called heart disease also needs heart medicine.

But most of the time, people are always in a state of pretending to sleep, no matter how noisy the outside world, no matter how loudly outsiders call, it is often difficult to shout to wake up, and people can often only be awakened by their pain.

No one can make you better and better, relationships and contacts will always be just a companion. Even if you live in a better circle, if you are stagnant and unwilling to continue to choose excellence, slowly will be abandoned by the circle in which you live.

For companies, the reason why they look at strong connections, the key lies in the mutual tendency to quickly reach a win-win situation, rather than long-term investment and pay, which is a risk in itself.

What can support you to become better and better is your strong willpower, cultivation, character, and constant reflection and correction.

Sometimes in life, you need to rely on people to guide the way, but often people will not take the initiative to help you move forward for no reason or to continue to cultivate their good, excellence, and character to continue to attract the guidance of people, to achieve a win-win situation.

Lead by the nobleman, walk by yourself, grow by experience, and ferry people first to ferry themselves.

Although the Buddha's law is wide, it does not pass through the people who do not have a connection; although the rain is big, it does not moisten the grass without roots.

If you want to get better in life and desire those landscapes as well as people and things that can match, the only way to get better is to choose to practice yourself and work hard for the good, so that the good things can come as expected.

The poet said that if you bloom, butterflies will come. Instead of waiting for the emergence of a noble person in your own miserable life, you should eliminate the nonsense and sprouts quickly, and use the waiting time to build and perfect a better you.

In life in the world, meeting the nobleman is a privilege, although there is a nobleman to help, on the road of life, still has to rely on their walk. The nobleman is just leading the way, you have to walk well. Too dependent on others, doomed to disappointment, rely more on themselves, there is hope.

In this long life, the only one who can control their destiny is themselves, their attitude towards themselves often determines the width of life.

When you can change your inner concept, you will slowly and quietly change your destiny.

You may have to rely on noble people to lead the way, but you have to walk by yourself.