Know how to accept the difference, to read social

If you encounter a disagreement, you can communicate, but there is no need to fight for a "result".

Many times, the more you argue, the more you can't discuss the results, and in the end, no one is convinced, only to disagree.

Originally just a friendly exchange between friends, but did not expect to finally become a quarrel, the relationship has become a feud.

Right and wrong are not absolute, the seemingly harsh voice, just a different view, can not recognize, but there is no need to deny all. Instead of just denying others, learn to accept and understand.

After all, each life environment is different, the feelings are known naturally different, not the same.

With different levels, with different feelings, it is difficult to think of a piece.

Once the quarrel, probably like in the chicken and duck talk, each speaks their reason, seemingly related, but can not say a piece.

Therefore, there is no need to spend time arguing with different levels of people, in the end, will only suffer themselves.

1、Different levels, arguments do not produce results

I heard a story.

It is said that a long time ago, someone went to the market to buy something, because of the price issue started a quarrel, the seller said a pack of seven, three packs is twenty-two, the buyer said the price must be wrong, three seven should be twenty-one.

The price difference is a dollar, but so the quarrel for most of the day, the final disagreement.

No matter which party, in the end, all lose, which not only will affect their mood, but also waste time.

If a party first gives up the quarrel, and verbally admits defeat, it is not so far from this.

Although there must be a party that is "wrong", a will count with a will not count so many calculations and what is the use, you say more, others do not understand, then say more is useless.

The public has a point, the woman has a point, each holding a word, all have a point, but not quite.

Continue to argue, what you get will only be a lose-lose.

Both in the embarrassment of others, but also in the consumption of their own.

Instead of wasting time arguing with people of different levels, it is better to take a loss.

Sometimes, properly concede defeat, seemingly a loss is a win.

In the adult world, there is no absolute win and lose, but sometimes losing is more profitable than winning, winning is better than losing.

2, each opinion, mutual respect

The same thing, from different perspectives, there are different opinions.

There is no saying who is right and who is wrong, each has its own opinion, and can not be recognized but there is no need to fight.

Sometimes, what others say, you do not agree with, but that does not mean that it is wrong.

Kant once said, "I respect any independent soul, although some I do not recognize, I can try to understand as much as possible."

Instead of sticking to your views and denying others, you should learn to respect other people's ideas, use an objective perspective to distinguish between right and wrong, and try to accept and understand.

The world of children, although living in the same space as adults, but their vision of what they see is different from ours, sometimes many feet, sometimes a "mountain" after another ......

Don't take anyone for yourself, even if you don't agree in your heart, you should try to accept and listen to other people's ideas, otherwise, you will be close to yourself if you stick to your views.

You know, if there is only one voice left in life, the world will become boring, no quarrel, only obedience, like a robot that lives according to the program settings, as if still alive, but like dead.

No one wants to live as a robot, listening to instructions to live, so why do we have to argue right or wrong, to make a "one-word" dictatorship?

People live a life, and the line between right and wrong is difficult to distinguish, arguing too much can not get results.

If a want to ask for a "result", it is better to accept the differences of others.

One stroke can be a "human" character, but it is not always the same.

Only if you know how to accept differences and learn to respect the ideas of others, you can achieve a better you.