Live your own life, out of the rhythm, is the final winner

Life in the world has its way of living.

The seemingly glamorous work, inside the heartache of the unknown.

Sometimes, you envy the life of others, others are also envying you.

Each has its good, each has its own bad, instead of envying others, it is better to live your own life, find the right path for yourself, out of your rhythm of life.

No matter how busy you are, don't worry too much about the "degree", to grasp the right amount, go well with their rhythm, so that life becomes more relaxed.

1, not panic when busy, grasp the rhythm

Life is not like cooking, everything can be prepared in advance, but there will inevitably be unexpected things that happen.

Can not do lightly, it is easy to get busy in the chaos, so things become worse.

Sometimes, the more you are afraid of "things", "things" will be more likely to appear, to avoid rather than openly face.

The busier you are, the calmer you have to be, only to grasp the dominant position, you can grasp their lives so that things are according to their rhythm too.

Conversely, the more panic, the more likely to make mistakes, so that things that would have been solved become worse, not the strength of the error, but the mindset has a problem.

For example, the exam time is getting closer and closer, people with a good mindset know how to plan first, according to the plan to review the exam content, and a bad mindset will be very panicky, worry about this and that, so that nothing to review.

So, no matter what you encounter, you should learn to calm down, with a normal mind to treat, walk your rhythm, live out your attitude, do not panic, and do your own.

2, leisure time is not wasted, improve yourself

In "Loneliness", there is a person who, because of idleness, joins the ranks of thieves in police arrests for theft three times, and joins the police team chasing the thieves three times, but in the end, he is still idle and does not know what to do.

In everyday life there is no shortage of similar people who want to get things done because they have nothing to do, thinking that they will not be idle if they have something to do on hand, without ever thinking that you pass the time, time will also pass you.

Instead of being too idle and wasting your time, you should take advantage of the time to do what you want to do.

For example, when others are too idle to play games, you can spend more time on improving yourself, perhaps not seeing the results at first, but over time will slowly open the gap.

I have seen a person because the talent is not high, learn what is very slow, sometimes try their best to test the results, are not as good as others casually test, but this is such a person, in others busy playing, constantly learning, relying on the efforts of the day, and eventually achieved a comeback.

Because hard enough, so the foundation is well laid, learn new knowledge faster and faster, and gradually master the laws of learning, more than those who were once better than themselves, and become the master of their own lives.

Don't waste your leisure time, improve yourself more while you have time, build up your strength and deal with the unknown.

Many times, the only way to live better is to become better yourself.

Not to lose time, to do a better version of themselves.

3、Find your rhythm and walk the road to be taken

Alfred North Whitehead once said, "Where in the world there is no absolute truth, all the truth is part of the truth, take them as absolute truth is nonsense."

Some things stand in different ways and say different things.

There are no absolute truths, only partial truths.

When you are busy at work, you want to be free, and when you are free at work, you want to be busy.

There is a good idle, busy, busy good, each has its advantages and disadvantages, in moderation.

After all, it is easy to be too idle to think, too busy to live in a mess.

Instead of indulging yourself in an uncontrolled life, it is better to find your rhythm of life and live your life well.