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How to Have a Good Relationship With Your Boyfriend

Having a boyfriend can be a very fulfilling proposition indeed.

By Archer Published about a year ago 3 min read
How to Have a Good Relationship With Your Boyfriend
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Having a boyfriend can be a very fulfilling proposition indeed. You want to do your best to make sure you treat him with respect and love that way you get the same in return.If you feel you need some help in your current relationship, learn how to have a good relationship with your boyfriend by following some basic techniques outlined below.

1. Don't Beat Him, Join Him - Join in activities that he likes. The key is to be involved. Maybe he likes to play baseball and you hate playing it. You can be just as supportive by going to his games and cheering him on.

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2. Share in the Laughter - Don't be shy or act like you are not interested. You will end up making him feel uncomfortable when he is around you, completely the opposite of what you want. I'm not saying to laugh like an idiot at everything he says or does. The idea is to sincerely appreciate his sense of humor and he will reciprocate. Besides a good sense of humor is attractive in both sexes.

3. Say Thank You - This may seem obvious, but it is genuinely appreciated by him when you say thank you and mean it. Especially when he gives you gifts. It will really make him feel good. The bonus is that you will get more when you sincerely give more.

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4. Hold His Hand - No need to force anything here, but casually grab his hand as you are walking together, etc., then let it go. If he wants to hold your hand he will. Don't underestimate body language. Sometimes body language will tell you much more than he will.

By utilizing the tips above, you will start to learn how to have a good relationship with your boyfriend. Maybe you already lost your boyfriend and are trying to get him back.

"His Secret Obsession" by James Bauer is a popular book that provides insights into the male psychology and what men truly desire in a relationship. Bauer suggests that men have an intense emotional drive that they hide from the world and refers to it as "His Secret Obsession."

For women who want to have a good relationship with their boyfriend, Bauer recommends understanding and tapping into this secret obsession. He believes that when a woman satisfies this drive, it creates a deep emotional connection with her partner and strengthens the bond between them.

Here are some tips on how to have a good relationship with your boyfriend based on Bauer's principles:

Show appreciation: Men crave appreciation and recognition. Expressing genuine gratitude for the things your boyfriend does for you and the relationship will make him feel valued and loved.

Give him space: Men need their personal space and time to recharge. Respect his boundaries and give him space when he needs it.

Show interest in his passions: Ask your boyfriend about his interests and hobbies. Show genuine interest and support for the things he is passionate about.

Be a good listener: Listen actively to what your boyfriend has to say. Give him your full attention and validate his feelings.

Create a sense of adventure: Introduce excitement and novelty into your relationship. Plan spontaneous dates or weekend getaways to keep things fresh and exciting.

By understanding and tapping into "His Secret Obsession," you can have a strong, loving, and fulfilling relationship with your boyfriend. By showing appreciation, giving him space, showing interest in his passions, being a good listener, and creating a sense of adventure, you can build a strong emotional connection and deepen the bond between you and your partner.

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