How to change your Attitude ?

Step - 1 ( Change your focus, look for the positive )

Start looking at the good aspect of a person or a situation rather than the bad aspect of it. We should be the inventor of good things. We should start focusing on positive aspect of life. If we look deficiencies in a person or something, then we will see many shortcomings.

Some people make a mistakes in everything. Even if any work done very well, it does not matter to them. They are Professional Critics. In every person or every situation, they will fine out any misdeeds. As if they are going some rewards for this competition. These people shatter enthusiasm of others. They blames whole world for their problems. I think I suggest a name of such people - Energy suckers.

Let see a short story regarding negative people -

A hunter bought an amazing dog for catching birds. That dog could walk on water. The hunter wanted to show that dog to his friends. He was very happy about this that he would be able to show this amazing dos to his friends. He called one of his friends to see duck hunting. Over the period of time, he shot several ducks with guns.

The man then ordered the dog to bring those ducks. The dog ran to fetch ducks. The man hoped his friend would say something about the dong or praise him, but his friend didn't say anything. While returning home, he asked his friend if he noticed anything special in the dog. His friend replied - "Yes, I saw a special thing in him. Your dong can't swim. This is where the point of view comes. His friend didn't saw that the dog could walk on water. Some people always look at the negative aspect.

But yes focusing on the good aspect doesn't mean that deficiencies ignored.

Be an Optimist -

"Be so strong that no one can disturb your peace of mind. Make all our friends realize that we appreciate their strengths and compulsions. See only the bright aspect of everything. Only think the best only things, work only for the best results and expect only the best. Welcome every man with a smile. Take so much time to improve yourself that we have no time to criticize others. Forget the mistakes of the past.

Step - 2 ( Make habit of Doing it now )

We all do procrastinate at some time in our life. I have also done that for which I regret later. Habit of procrastinate makes our attitude negative. On completion of any work, it brings happiness and is uplifted. Whereas half-finished work kills our courage, just as a hole in a water tank empties the tank. If we want to create and maintain positive attitude then live in present time and adapting to work immediately.

A young child says that when I grow up, I will do the work that will make me happy. When he grows up, he says that I will do that work after finishing college to get happiness. When he finishes college, he says that he will get happiness on getting a job first. After getting the first job, he says that he will get happiness once he gets married. After getting married, he says that he will get happiness when his children start going to school. When his children finish school, he says that he will get happiness after retiring. And after retiring, he sees that his whole life has passed before his eyes. In this way, that young boy spent his whole life in search of happiness but he could never get happiness because of his evasive habit.

If you want to do something in life, do immediately, don't wait foe anyone. This moment will never come back in your life. If you want to start a business, start it immediately. It you want to tell someone about your heart then tell him, propose her/him.

" DO NOT DELAY "

It is the most painful word in life -

• " This could have happened "
• " I should have done that "
• " I could do it "
• " I wish , I had done this "
• " If I tried a little more, it could work "

" Never put tomorrow on what you can do today " ( - Benjamin Franklin )