Fortunes stumbling! What's luck got to do with it?

Julian Danielly of Aladan Corp. never over rated the bourses swings or market pulse. The upbeat outlook later was to make him emerge as a global leader in latex gloves and durex manufacturing. And it didn't happen accidentally.

One in a million lucky breaks!

Well…the only piece of luck, if you may call it, happened when he got fired by his previous employer Ansell Corp in August 1986! He had a harrowing time finding buyers for the ugly duckling of items coming out of his own stable in early years of struggle but eventually could strike a good deal with Aussies who wanted to enter the U.S. market in a hurry.

Does this mean that luck smiled or hurt him by chance alone? Has it got nothing to do with his choices or efforts? If luck is that real in deciding our everyday fate, what about the truth that everything fell his way more out of grind than luck happening as an accident?

Speaking of it, don't we incorrectly use the word luck to avoid taking responsibilities for our choices? We consider ourselves lucky; if we are born healthy and able bodied; if we have a perfect weather on our day off; if a stranger buys us a coffee and compliments with a "have a nice day."; if we put a dime in a slot machine and win a jackpot bonus; all such things happening truly benefit us and yet are completely out of our control.

On the contrary, what we consider bad luck is what harms us by chance. We feel unlucky, when we get a flat on our way to work; when our flight gets cancelled and we sit for six long hours at airport hoping to get a seat in the next one, worse still may be at the back of the plane next to a hollering baby. In fact, the upshot of completely out-of-control event makes us feel unlucky, dejected and perhaps angry!

What when it comes to money?

If Randy Schutt's- a long-time progressive activist and researcher- unforgiving illustration of unequal luck is to be believed then when it comes to money, fate does matter quite a bit!. The idea that hard work is all that's needed for health, wealth and happiness, is all a blind caper! "The Chancy Islands: A Land of Equally Capable People But With Unequal Luck" explains just how much of dumb luck, bit of a chance and slice of encouraging circumstances can play monkey in 'who becomes wealthy and who stays poor'!

Beaten down by the everyday dismal science of bread and butter, most of us consider ourselves lucky if we could manage enough to get by; very lucky if we're doing well and extremely lucky if we're super rich.

But to ride the circumstances and become wealthy!…well, that's usually not true. Some people amass huge wealth even in face of random shocks of accidents, disasters and windfall fortunes. Others continue to wallow into shortages and sleep rough without having done anything to deserve deprivation.

Tax the wealthy in popular ways and hope for eliminating long term equality! Well…economic mobility does help those born in the bottom fifth of the wellness ladder to sweat their way up; but rebalancing the chances with choices is a lost dream for most people.

It's quirky and gets corrupted each time we try to rejig it!

Feeling lucky? Start counting your blessings

Ever wondered why so many gamblers risk a loss knowing well the odds of a win are against them? Is the belief that dice is 'hot' in a winning streak good enough for them to keep going? Why do we all expect heads on a coin toss next, after several flips have turned up tails each time? Is luck got something to do with it or is it simply a fickled mind's illusion?For most of us luck still matters-profoundly!

As entertaining and informative as it is, our belief in it and the decrepit mindset of winning or losing an opportunity, never fails to sell us a million dollar bet on luck, each time we get the chance to ace it. Somebody's struck with catastrophic illness, another's winning a jackpot; without a healthy dose of good luck, nothing meets success. We all know that but prefer to believe that we are more in control of our lives than we actually are.

That doesn't mean that we give up or stop trying in the hope that luck would influence the random events that come our way; good or bad, one way or another! There's a lot we can do to ensure that only the good one keeps flowing your way.

Everything is impossible until it isn't!

For years altogether, I have taught myself to listen to the very first half awake thoughts in the morning. It's amazing! I always end up with list of things that I am grateful today. I am alive; I am happy and there's plenty of comforting things around me. People love me, mates respect me and friends admire me….so many good things are happening around me and there is so much to do in life.

Then there's of course a list of bad things that could have happened but didn't. For that I thank my…good luck for buying me yet another safe day.

Trust nobody but yourself; nothing would better your day than to start it by getting on the 'field of life' and every time taking a swing for the fences. I begin mine by giving it my best to stay alive and improve.

I believe, fortune never fails those who choose to give it their all.

Bad luck is real and so are bad choices!

I'm so often struck by the way people talk of luck in everyday gossip as something that only hurts or benefits by chance; nobody talks much of choices. The truth is that most of us keep lying to ourselves by blaming luck for our misfortunes. And we do this frequently in situations or around people who would remind us of truth about ourselves without restraint.So, to keep the good fortunes flowing your way; try hanging out with this naked truth;

 'Luck doesn't get us to bourses- making money and thrive is a choice that nobody would ever let go'.

Life is full of randomness and is not obliged to give you what you expect. Pulling up each day and buckling down, to get more tailwinds than headwinds will make you covet your choices more than surreal luck.

When you want to spot a lie, listen for the word luck and when you get that, ask yourself; "Isn't this only about avoiding taking responsibilities?"

Clichés aside, once you've braced yourself enough to own the truth and wouldn't pause for luck; you surely will get your chance at change.

Besides it's never any good to bet on some crapshooter illusion!