Forgotten Mindset Shift That Turns Regular Men into Leaders and Kings

Masculinity is plummeting right now. Along with the average testosterone level in men (by about 1% per year according to a 2007 study in the Journal of Clinical Endocrinology and Metabolism)

So many guys today feel lost and depressed. They feel lonely and insecure. What’s gone wrong?

Well, a lot has gone wrong. It would take me about 20 articles to even begin describing that. But what I want to show you today is what modern men can do right now to change that feeling of lack, of constant need and constant emptiness.

It’s a simple mindset shift that once you make, can give you the same drive and ambition as the world’s most successful, most sought-after and most badass men (from past AND present).

This shift rarely makes it into the mainstream. And when it does, your average guy usually rolls his eyes and ignores it. He pays a very heavy price for his ignorance, I’ll tell you right now. Because he is ignoring his untapped potential, his unattained personal growth and his overall happiness.

That’s pathetic.

But if you’re looking to achieve great success in life… If you want to have the respect, power and influence that most men are denied, then I got something really cool that will help you get there.

It sure helped me. I wouldn’t be writing about it if I didn’t implement it in my own life.

And this shift starts with one simple question… “What is my mission?”

“What is my personal mission in life? What is the thing I think about first thing in the morning and then go do it, with all the passion and conviction I can muster?

“And then what’s the last thing on my mind as I drift off to sleep each night?”

If the answer wasn’t clear as day, then we got a problem.

Don’t worry, it’s actually not your fault. There are so many outside factors at play here, it’s beyond any man’s power to protect himself.

But why is this a problem?

Because a man without a mission inspires weakness and pity. He’ll be mocked by everyone around him and disrespected wherever he goes. He’ll be a clown for everyone else, trying to impress and get validation, but will rarely see any.

I’m saddened to say this... but you have NO CLUE how many guys I’ve seen behave this way. It pains me, it truly does.

Now think about the biggest high-achievers out there. The leaders, kings and conquerors of history. The successful entrepreneurs, artists and sportsmen of today. (And everyone else that’s ever achieved amazing things in their life).

What separates them from most guys?

It was the dedication to their mission. They stopped at nothing to pursue it. They were going to get there, or they’d die trying.

Their mission came before their friends and even families. Before their jobs and societal obligations.

And in turn, that offered them incredible confidence, charisma and tremendous amounts of influence. Also, when you start focusing on your mission, on your life’s purpose, you’ll concurrently start experiencing the pleasures of life that most men DARE NOT EVEN DREAM OF! Not to mention the fact that your life now has deeper meaning. There’s a real, important reason why you’re doing the things you’re doing… the reason is your mission.

What else will happen once you make this quick mindset shift (that’s often ignored by the herd)? You’ll ACTUALLY get what all the thirsty losers today are looking for.

Women?

You bet! What could be more attractive to a woman than a guy who knows what he wants and will stop at nothing to get it? That’s true power, and women dig it.

Amazing friends? Amazing Business Relationships?

Again, a sure bet! Who wouldn’t want to be around a man who gets things done? A man who is driven and self-assured. A man whose personal mission gives him the charisma and influence that everybody wants, yet ver few will ever experience?

But above all, you’ll experience the ecstasy that comes from intensely pursuing your mission.

This was the mindset shift I was talking about. How many people know this and apply it? Look around and count the successful guys. Yup, good luck finding them.

This can be used in any field. Being so rich you don’t have to worry about finances ever again can become your mission. Being the best in the world at something (sports, music, writing, etc.) can also be a personal mission. Whatever it is you choose, make sure it’s something that gets you fired up.

This is simple and can be done extremely fast (I’m talking seconds).

You got a decision to make here. That’s where it all starts. And if you choose poorly, you’ll end up in the ocean of average shmucks chasing women and outside validation. Running around in circles, being mocked and disrespected by everyone he crosses paths with.

Screw That Nonsense!

Find your mission, define your life’s purpose. And be relentless in pursuing it. You’ll see challenges and probably feel like giving up. That’s when you go back and remember why you started.

Again, this stuff isn’t talked about too often. It may seem obvious to some of you (I hope) but it really isn’t to most guys. So take advantage of this.

Get your life together. Figure out what it is you want to do with your time and energy (the most precious resources you’ll ever see)… and then be relentless about pursuing that goal.

The money, power, influence, women, glory…

They’ll all take care of themselves once you know your mission and you start relentlessly pursuing it.

Talk soon,

Rob