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Can I Hurt You

My Opinion

By Curtis NewkirkPublished 3 years ago 3 min read
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Can I Hurt You
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Can my opinion hurt you? This is a very serious question, because everyone in the world has an opinion about everything. The way that you respond are you receive someone's opinion could affect you greatly. The best thing to do is to have self-confidence and self-knowing. Who you are you attend not to fall for every little thing someone may say or may do? Your opinion is just that your opinion, but when I allow your opinion to affect my life or my beliefs then I have to question myself. What was said was it true or did you persuade me to think a certain way. It's kind of like a form of peer- pressure.

If you are around, it long enough and don't deal with it you can become a victim of it either helping to hurt someone else or get to the point where you don't want to be around those people who do it. In all those situations that make you feel this way in life, we have to understand no one has the correct answer to every question. The majority of the time we have to proceed with what we know is the best option and just go forward.

If we feel then we should look where we failed, but if we succeed now, we can say that we have gained or obtained knowledge. Now we can share this with someone else your opinion should be just your opinion, but we should always be careful about how we express ourselves. We do not want to hinder or hurt someone else, because of the way that we feel. I can agree to disagree with you, but at the same time not to make you feel bad for the opinion or the way you feel about a certain subject. When I do this, I'm showing the lack of self-confidence I have for myself. Now I want someone else to feel insecure about themselves to hurt them to make me feel better.

In life, we will want our ways of doing things to be more positive than negative. The way that we do that is to understand that it doesn't hurt to practice what you preach. You should take the time to listen to what you going to say in your mind before you say it out loud, because once you say or do that thing that you cannot take it back. Now the consequences of your action are not left up to you. Sometimes we put ourselves in a bind or in a situation that we may not be pleased with, because of the things that we have done, and we find ourselves apologizing over and over again for our actions.

This happens when we are not able to have self-control knowing that what we do or what we say is really effective. It can be in a good way or in a negative way. We tend to want to bring the best out of people if the truth is told. The way that we do that is having self-accountability and self-control yes, your opinion matters. To you, but what about someone else opinion on the matter. Feeling the way that they feel I don't think that it's wrong to have a difference of opinion, but I do feel it is wrong when you force your opinion on others. You want others to believe the way that you believe. You believe and have the opinion that you have based on the way you grew up, your experience in life, and the trauma that you have been through. There is a whole new world waiting for you if you just hear someone else opinion`s out. Who knows you might just learn something new?

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Curtis Newkirk

Curtis Ardelle Newkirk is a father, a son, a brother, a minister, an artist, and a writer. Giving his wisdom, understanding, and his knowledge of life. He hopes to impact or to enlighten someone's mind to help change the world.

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