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Behind the 'Seen'

What success looks like behind the scenes

By Lemar A. BiggsPublished about a year ago 4 min read
Behind the 'Seen'
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In a world of glitz and glamour, where success is often portrayed as overnight, it's easy to overlook the struggles, lessons, and unwavering mindset that truly define the path to triumph. Behind every remarkable success story lies a hidden journey filled with challenges, setbacks, and a relentless determination to push beyond limits. Join us as we delve into the untold narratives of successful individuals who have risen from obscurity to greatness, shedding light on the invaluable lessons they've learned along the way. Below we will discuss some of the common themes that are oftentimes omitted from the spotlight that need to be shared, just to know that we all have challenges to overcome.

Embracing Failure: The Pathway to Growth

One common thread among successful individuals is their ability to embrace failure as a stepping stone to success. Behind closed doors, they face countless setbacks, rejections, and disappointments. Rather than being defeated, they harness these experiences to cultivate resilience, determination, and an unyielding belief in their abilities. While success stories often skip over the failures, successful individuals understand that failure is an integral part of the journey. They embrace failure as a catalyst for growth and reframing setbacks as opportunities, they develop the courage to try again, armed with newfound knowledge and a refined approach.

Battling Self-Doubt and Overcoming Limiting Beliefs

Behind closed doors, successful individuals grapple with self-doubt and wrestle with limiting beliefs that threaten to hinder their progress. They confront their inner struggles head-on, developing strategies to overcome negative self-talk and cultivate unwavering self-confidence. It isn't easy, but practice becomes permanent. Whatever is done often becomes a part of you, hence chose to continue when you feel like quitting will become an habit if done often enough.

The Power of Discipline and Sacrifice

Hidden from the spotlight, successful individuals adhere to strict discipline and make significant sacrifices to achieve their dreams. They sacrifice leisure, comfort, and short-term gratification for long-term gains. Whether it's waking up early, maintaining rigorous routines, or practicing self-restraint, their commitment sets them apart. Discipline is DOING WHAT YOU SAID YOU WOULD DO, WHEN YOU SAID YOU WOULD DO IT. Therein lies the struggles and the key. The choice is ours to make.

Embracing Flexibility and Adaptability

Success stories are often painted as linear journeys, but the reality is far from it. Behind the scenes, successful individuals navigate through a sea of uncertainty, adapting their plans, and embracing flexibility when faced with unexpected twists and turns (which are many). This ability to pivot and adjust their strategies allows them to thrive in the face of ever-changing circumstances. The response to unforeseen circumstances is a critical skill to possess on the journey of success.

The Power of Networking: Cultivating Relationships

Behind closed doors, successful individuals understand the importance of building and nurturing meaningful relationships. Networking provides them with a support system, mentorship opportunities, and collaborations that propel their growth. They leverage their connections to gain valuable insights, learn from others' experiences, and widen their horizons, ultimately accelerating their journey to success. The support system is often overlooked or frowned upon but when you are at your lowest, a simple 'you're gonna be okay' can make a world of a difference.

Seeking Mentorship and Continuous Learning

Whenever you stop learning, you stop growing. Behind the scenes, successful people understand the importance of seeking guidance and learning from those who have walked the path before them. They recognize that growth doesn't happen in isolation, and they actively seek out mentors who can provide invaluable insights, feedback, and wisdom. This growth mindset enables them to constantly evolve and stay ahead of the curve. Whether it means having face to face access to someone who is successful in the area of your interests, you seek out advice from an expert on YouTube, take a course or go to a seminar, learning from someone who has already done what you are seeking to do WILL prove to be invaluable.

The Power of Taking a Break

Fatigue and burnout is as real as they get. Being determined and persistent is great, however knowing when to take a break can be equally as important as giving it your all. Successful people know that mental or emotional fatigue can be just as detrimental to your success as not trying hard enough. Sometimes, all that's needed is a timely break to refresh and reset so make it happen!

While the spotlight may highlight the final destination, it fails to capture the arduous journeys that successful individuals undertake. Behind closed doors, they battle failures, setbacks, and their own self-doubt, mastering the art of resilience, perseverance, and adaptability. By embracing failure, seeking mentorship, and cultivating an unyielding mindset, they transform adversity into opportunity, demonstrating that true success lies not just in the final outcome but also in the unseen struggles, lessons, and mindset that shape the journey.

So, the next time you encounter a success story, remember the untold narrative behind it, a story of growth, sacrifice, and unwavering determination. Let these hidden gems inspire you to overcome your own challenges and pave your way to success, one step at a time.

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Lemar A. Biggs

"I have so many things to do, but so little time..." If that's you, just know that you're not alone and that you can IF you know WHY, WHAT and HOW. You may not be a musician like myself but our success principles are the same. #Teamwork

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