Be yourself, more important than anything else

The fact is that you will be able to get a good deal on your own, and you'll be able to get by with it, but you don't think that people are good at being bullied, and horses are good at being ridden.

Your step back, what you get is someone else's inch of progress.

I thought I could retreat to advance, but I never thought the result would be unsatisfactory.

Give up, what you get is not necessarily as desired.

The success of others is not as important as the success of oneself, to be oneself, as anything else.

1. Fantasy is beautiful, reality is real

Fantasy is to do whatever you want, everything as you wish, what you want can be done, as if everything is under control, but do not think about the human heart, what you want is only what you want.

The reality of life is more "cruel", think that the good, is destroyed by reality, experience to understand that life is not easy, not everything can be as desired, and more is not as desired.

The cruelty of reality, do not admit, more hurt.

Living in fantasy, perhaps beautiful, but impractical.

Instead of living in a fantasy, wake yourself up.

You are not as good as you think, more shortcomings, lie to yourself, rather than face the reality, there are bad but have the opportunity to change.

Recognize your shortcomings, there is room for improvement.

There may be shortcomings, but there are more advantages, as long as you are willing to work hard, the future is infinite possibilities, and you can create the reality of the "miracle".

There are shortcomings but there is room for improvement, and the achievement is better in the present effort.

Compared to fantasy, reality has more infinite possibilities.

Find the path you want to take and grasp your life.

2. Live in the present, control yourself

Instead of indulging yourself, you should control yourself.

Life is not perfect, but also not suffering, bitter and sweet are accompanied by each other, there are more and less, but not a single show.

It's better to make yourself whole than to condescend to yourself.

Do as you wish, seemingly in line with the heart, how is not in line with the situation.

Control the emotions, control the desire, do yourself, help not others, more is their own, in the emotions, desire, vanity temptation still adhere to the self.

Efforts to adhere to a certain principle, grasp the proportion, adhere to the self, not as good as it is also as good as it can be, the desperate can also be born.

Whether it is emotion, desire, or manipulation of sovereignty, is putting the cart before the horse, and finally getting more tragedy, compared to being a "slave", rather than grasping the sovereignty, brave to be themselves.

Perhaps there are shortcomings, but the real self.

Control the uncertainties, you can achieve a better self.

Resist the desire, control the emotions, not be dominated, control the sovereignty, and live a better version of yourself.

Perhaps inadequate, but there is room for improvement.

3. Become yourself and do what you want to do

Life is only a few decades, and the turn of an eye is a lifetime.

Maybe there are regrets, but still going on.

Whatever it is, there is an impact, and the lack can not be delayed.

What you think is important, more than you think, the past is past, the existence of defects in your choice already exists.

Instead of regretting now, it is better to work hard at the moment.

Dare to do what you want to do, to live a better version of yourself.

The hard at the time, just hard, later easy, was once hard, after the fact will be transformed, only at the moment how to think.

As long as it is what you want to do, try to do it, and there will be results.

Whether you win or lose, spell it out and it counts.

The fact is that you can't be too young, but who can try to be themselves, and more often than not, they live as others, thinking they are themselves but are self-deceived.

In life in the world, compared to the commission, it is better to become their own, to do what they want to do, regardless of everything to do themselves.

Although realistic, it is to make yourself whole.

There are regrets, but no regrets.

Do yourself a favor and achieve better.

Perhaps the road is difficult but walks through the good.