Be Honest To Yourself

In order for you to be true to yourself you must accept everything you do good or bad you must accept it for yourself so you can move on with your life the best you can; it's not time to be dishonest to yourself are to the situation but it's time to teach and learn from it; it's time to say what you need to say, and leave it where ever you are so that way you won't take it with you.

Be honest to yourself, and no one else because that other person does not matter. When you go home and look yourself through a mirror it's time for you to teach yourself how to love yourself all over again its time to say to yourself " Rachel your not perfect no one is but you are your own person".

When you wake up before you say your first word of the day you have to know that your doing your best, and that you will keep pushing yourself to keep going, and not think so much about who said what because they are not living your life you are focus on what your plans are and the other person need to do the same, and that's being honest to yourself and no one else; expect and move on because things are always going to happen and you don't have to be the one to start it are finish it however when it happens you can't fault yourself because things will always happen and it's out of your hands and mine.

You can't start the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading the last one; you have to stay calm as hard as it is you must continue to do so; it's going to be hard all the time but you have to keep trying. yes some days your going t want to walk away and star all over and even that is going to be hard but you can do it. For example: I've only been married for almost four years, and everyday I have to tell myself something to keep myself from not walking away. You may need to find quotes, and memos to keep yourself in a positive state of mind but you must remember that everyone that knows you might tell you that your crazy that your no good, and your not worthy but you take those words and you run with them because you can use those words to push you to keep you going forward because if you let people's words get to you, and just stop living then they have won remember as long as you are still moving around on this earth then you have more fight in you so keep going keep pushing because that's what they want you to do is stop living.

Your going to have love, your going to fall in and out of love, you will have you heart broken and you will find yourself with a person that you feel you can't live with out and that person will hurt you but you must take your life lessons learn from them and you will make mistakes but don't keep making the same mistake and don't let it keep you down where you feel you can't get back up and start over again.

Staying down and not getting back up again is the worst thing you can do if you don't remember nothing else remember this; it will get hard , and you will not want to keep going you will want to give up but don't if you have something are someone in your life to live for live for that person and in time you will want to live for yourself

Be honest with yourself and that's where you start and where you go back to when you get stuck.

You even may get to a place in yourself that makes you feel like dirt so dirty in fact you will start feeling like what's the point of staying fresh and that's because you hate your life and even hate yourself but know this stay true to yourself because that's you growing and changing. Once you start doing that you will start thinking different and not really caring about what people say behind your back or in your face because you will know that you are not perfect but human and that your changing for the better and you will be able to go to someone else and say "what are you doing about yourself and your own life"? know what you are saying before you say it because if not "I'm going t be like here is your face it was on the floor".

Stay honest and grow quote: As I have said the first thing is to be honest with yourself you can never have an impact on society if you have not changed yourself great peace makers are all people of integrity, of honesty but humility -Nelson Mandela-