A good life is to constantly correct yourself

The "correct yourself" thing is a cumulative process, not overnight, like the "Law of the Lotus", persevering until the end to win.

Many times, the gap between people is often not the innate conditions, but the acquired efforts, those seemingly stupid efforts, that can make people better.

Unfortunately, some people are overly ambitious, can only see the distance, but can not see the road beneath their feet, unwilling to sink their teeth into deep plowing themselves, so they finally tripped by themselves.

It's not that others are blocking your way, but you are hindering yourself and taking the uphill road into a downhill one.

Instead of spending time eating, drinking, and playing, spend more time correcting yourself to make yourself better and better.

1. Sink your teeth into it and hone yourself

Karen Horne said, "Only when we are willing to take a beating can we hope to become our masters."

Faced with trials and tribulations, instead of running away, it is better to face it squarely, even if the result is a failure, do not be afraid, life which may not have failed, this time lost, the next effort to win back just fine.

Dare to bear the blow, from failure to learn from the experience, is a sign of a person towards maturity.

Only if you dare to face and take on, you can be your own master and take control of your life.

Many times, thinking that you can not pass the hurdle, is in self-righteousness, to know that if you have not given up lightly before trying your best, it is undoubtedly in the abandonment of their own, think that they have escaped the "bitter" life, but do not know that when young do not eat the bitter will become the future tears.

Can escape a moment, can not escape a lifetime.

There is time to escape, it is better to sober up slowly, quietly trying to improve themselves.

It is important to know that today's trials and tribulations will make tomorrow's better.

Only strive to improve themselves, and accumulate strength to do better themselves, to boil the bitter days out of the sweet taste.

2. Be careful with what you say and do, and keep yourself

The Gospel of Matthew says: "Treat others how you want them to treat you, and you must treat them how you want to be treated."

In real life, some people are completely double standards to themselves and others, what they do not like, others can not do, others do not like, but they do not know, but do not think that feelings are mutual, false feelings can not be exchanged for true.

How you to others, it is no wonder how others will be to you.

Like talking about this thing, although everyone has the right to speak freely, but should not say less, will not speak do not say, so as not to open their mouth to offend people.

Those who do not like to talk nonsense to people, think they are talking about people, but do not know are suspicious of people.

Say what should not be said, open your mouth to offend people, invisible will be buried hidden trouble.

Like someone wearing new clothes, want to get compliments, not opinions, if you say a "this color does not suit you", spoil the atmosphere, but also let the other party's mood becomes low.

Instead of opening your mouth to offend people, it is better to learn to be careful what you say, when you shut up, shut up, and keep your part not to easily offend people.

Behave, be careful what you say and do, to keep yourself.

3. Cultivate your body and soul, be a better version of yourself

Everyone has a young and vigorous time, loves to play, love to stay up all night, and does their own arbitrary.

However, youth is a moment, it will always pass.

In contrast to consuming the capital of youth, it is better to take advantage of the youth to take advantage of early health, by the way, to collect temper, and cultivate the body to do a better self.

After all, a good body, only to have the capital of the revolution, to do what they want to do.

However, it is very difficult to do this overnight, it takes years and years to do, from the inside out change.

For example, not complaining about this thing, it is difficult to say that you want to do it.

You should know that sometimes even if you live a more transparent life, there are times when you are stuck in the mud and can't get out and complain.

Many times, all we can do is try to be open-minded, and spend time complaining about life to change, only to become better, to face the unknown everything.

Anyway, one step at a time, everything will slowly become better.