Push yourself a little and live better

It is not easy to live a life.

There are some things that you can't get if you want them.

The reality is very cruel, what you want is not necessarily available, what you get is not necessarily what you want, and you may not be able to live a personal life even if you try your best.

However, although the reality of cruelty, living is very tiring, more suffering and tired have to persist, or waiting for their own will only be a more tragic fate.

Giving up is a simple matter, the hard thing is to persist.

Only by persevering to the end can you become the final winner.

And pretend to work hard, can only touch themselves, but can not change the reality, rather than so, it is better to force themselves a hand so that self-discipline becomes a habit.

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Many times, "can't hold on" is an excuse to yourself, it seems to be the best effort, but in fact, there is room for error.

Even if you lose, you can still comfort yourself "did not try", but do not know that over time "excuse" has become the truth, get used to giving up, you can no longer hold on.

At that time, find more reasons, but also can not cover up the failure.

Let you fail, not others, but your own, that will only find excuses to escape, but do not want to force themselves a person.

Because of countless times of giving up, and losing the opportunity to win, even if you force yourself a fear also very difficult to catch up with peers.

Originally, as long as the willingness to work hard, there will be achievements, but the habit of giving up will lose the qualification to win, slowly pulling away from each other.

Not how good others are, but you do not work hard enough.

In the age of suffering should be timid, think you can escape, but forget to escape in exchange, only more bitter taste.

Bitter and sweet is mutual, this time to eat the bitter, in the future will boil out the sweet taste, although life is impermanent, but the effort will eventually have a harvest.

Only day-by-day persistence can rely on their step by step out of their life road, the peers left behind.

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There are some things that you can't figure out even if you think about them more.

Instead of wasting time on "thinking", it is better to force yourself to do, through practice to trial and error, may take the wrong road, but eventually, find the right road.

It is much more practical than just thinking about it.

Some things, it is difficult to do at first, but persist for a long time will become a habit.

Like exercise, not often exercise people, move a few feel tired, but adhere to a day, two days, three days ...... into a habit will not be tired, and even in the invisible will slowly improve their physical quality.

Many times, you think the "own" just think, the real self may have more potential than imagined, but most people are used to getting by and get by, do not dare to force themselves to do those things that are difficult to adhere to, so miss a better version of themselves.

Some things, if you want to do, then you should be brave enough to do, even if the result is bound to lose, but you do not try, how can you know how much difference between yourself and win, and how to force out their potential, and how to do a better version of themselves.

Between people and people, sometimes the difference is a "forced", some people are forcing themselves to live better, some people just get by and get by, are the choice, but there are very different results.

Although the former is tired of living at first but better than the latter life, enough self-discipline will be lucky enough, and mixed life, mixed a moment, mixed can not be a lifetime.

Live, what do you want to do, instead of staying in the "think" to leave regrets, rather than forcing yourself to do, even if you lose, there will be no regrets, and winning can make life more of a choice.

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It is said that human potential is unlimited, but if you do not push yourself, you simply do not know what potential is.

Many times, our "force" is only in the words, in the thought, but no action, it is the same as in empty talk.

And talk, talk more than useless, and even easy to become a joke.

Therefore, the idea is to do, forcing themselves to fight a little.

However, some people even if they dare to fight, will also be in denial of others in the spirit of fighting all.

Knowing that what others say is not necessarily credible, but will still be hit, can not help but doubt whether they can do it.

I do not know, doubt is easy to fail, at this time deep inside already feel that they can not, and then how to force can not force a so, rather than learn to be sensitive to the negation of others.

A family of words, one-sided words, is not enough to believe.

Do people, there is no need to deny yourself because of the negativity of others.

Encourage yourself more, be brave, and move forward, even if you lose, do not be afraid, as an accumulation of experience, a win or loss does not mean forever, persevere until the end is the winner.