A woman could not afford to raise her child and wanted to give it to her ex-husband to raise, but he refused mercilessly

Life in the world, to be responsible for every choice they make, so we stand at the fork in the road of choice, to be very careful, especially in their life events, after making a choice must be firm, can not easily regret, some things have no room for regret.

A woman and her ex-husband divorced, can not afford to raise the child, want to give the child to the ex-husband to raise, holding the child to find the ex-husband to explain the situation, was mercilessly refused.

When she decided to marry her ex-husband, her parents strongly objected because her ex-husband did not work all day and they were worried that life would be difficult after marrying him and did not want their daughter to suffer.

She was determined to marry her ex-husband to fulfill the promise she had made, despite her parents' objections, and the wedding house was bought for them with money borrowed by both parents.

After the marriage, her ex-husband did not change anything, still do nothing to work, no money to ask her, her salary is not high, after paying the mortgage can barely support daily life, and her husband did not spend money without restraint, she can only borrow money from her parents to live.

For such a long time, she felt a lot of pressure on her body, originally thought that married could change to take responsibility for the family, did not expect the pressure of family and life all fall on their own, she was suffering, regret getting married.

Eventually, she could not bear the enormous pressure and chose to divorce her husband, when she proposed the divorce thought her husband would stay but did not expect him to readily agree.

Shortly after the divorce, she found out she was pregnant and told her ex-husband, who said he didn't want to be responsible for the child, and that it had nothing to do with him whether he had it or not.

Despite what her ex-husband said, she still wanted to have the baby. Her parents advised her to be sensible, as the baby would be a lifelong bond and hoped she would think it through.

After all, it was a small life, and it was a life that was being nurtured in her belly. She could not be ruthless in depriving the child of its right to live, and after thinking about it, she decided to have the child.

After the birth of her child, her life has changed a lot, she can no longer work, every day around the child, her savings were soon spent, and her parents will give her some help, but still far from enough.

Thinking of the child's growth still needs a lot of payment, she felt that her ability is still too small, and she has no economic conditions, the child will also follow their own life of hardship, such a life is not conducive to the growth of children.

When she was helpless, she thought of her ex-husband, hoping that he could take responsibility for raising the child, she called him and sent him messages, but they all went unanswered, like a stone sinking into the sea.

The first thing you can do is to go to your ex-husband with your child in your arms, and when you see him, he is shopping with his current girlfriend, and she doesn't care that much, she hands the child to her ex-husband and says, "Look at him, he's so cute, he's your biological child, you raise him."

She also had to tell her difficulties, but before she could finish, her ex-husband rejected her, dragged his current girlfriend, and left, without any feelings for the child.

The first time she saw her ex-husband's back, her heart cut like a knife, worrying about their mother and son's future life.

My opinion.

The woman in the article made two major choices in her life path, one was to marry her ex-husband and the other was to divorce him and choose to give birth to her child.

After marriage, two people can choose to divorce if their lives are not as good as they want, which is regrettable, but this process can also cause harm to each other, so she should be more cautious before getting married, listen to her parents' opinions and examine the character of her ex-husband before choosing to get married.

When she learned that she was pregnant, she should also consider many things, do not be emotional, the child is life, after all, raising a child is a very difficult thing, and she should consider the hardships of the process of raising a child, to assess their ability to support the child and their own lives or not.

She didn't think through both choices. She can regret the marriage, but she can't regret the fact that she has to raise her child once he is born.

I hope that in the future, she will be able to take each choice seriously, examine the situation around her, make the choice that is best for her, and not regret it once she has made it.