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Nude Next Door Documentary

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By Brandi DexterPublished 10 months ago 10 min read
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Nude Next Door is on ABC iview is about OnlyFans and the world of online porn. I was so shocked an ABC journalist messaged me out of the blue and managed to find my name. Apparently someone who went the same high school as me said i had an Only Fans account and she wanted to find more about me & my story. I feel it was a really great opportunity to take but i was never in the media industry and i feel so nervous filming with a lot of nerve wracking questions. I was so brave to make my own choice against my mother's wishes because my story would relate to so many young people who are financially struggling and they do not want to ask their parents for money. Therefore, they jump into sex work because of this.It was psychologically stressful doing sex work online because many young people like me have to choose between a good relationship with my family or making a lot of money becoming more career oriented by doing online sex work which many parents don't agree on their choice of income.

My mum said " please don't talk her". I replied back " I am older enough to consent to an interview it's my choice". Over 18's have the legal right to write a consent form when it comes to media interviews and they have the right to choose if they want to talk to the journalists or not. If i was under 18 the situation would be different and my mum would revoke that because i don't have legal rights such as signing a document or a consent form if i was a minor. The documentary was about the online adult industry so of course they would pick adults and not minors. Only Fans has a zero tolerance policy for minors on the platform anyways.The whole thing with my mother was bullshit because i was allowed to make my own choice if was happier enough to do an interview or not.

Because i told her that my mum was totally against me doing the interview the producer and the journalist wanted to protect me from further hate or anymore ramifications with my family especially my mum and my stepdad. I had to sign a consent form myself as i am not a minor for the past 6 years. So they changed my name and my voice as the producer did my voiceover & narrated my story. When my story aired i was so lucky that night that my mum and stepdad did not change the tv channel because they could see my hair colour and the dress i was wearing.

The hate and inappropriate laughs from family would be the worse nightmare if my face was shown in the documentary. I had enough of the stigma and judgement.

They were so kind and understanding in order to make changes and precautions to put my story on national television. Because getting hate from family and trying to stop you agreeing to a journalistic interview was putting a lot of pressure on the ABC production to modify my story.

Family can put a lot of pressure on you behind your decisions and you start to break down, and cry because you feel unhappy under your parents roof and you eventually want to move out.

When i watched Nude Next Door on ABC it was so awkward seeing myself on national televison. It was a cold windy day and i was wearing a short pink dress. My hair was medium length. To have my story out there , broadcasted to a national audience was nerve wracking.

Billie Beever

Billie is the world's top Only Fans creators who earns a lot of money on the platform and she has a large social media following. She is a single mum to a young daughter. Billie resides on the Gold Coast and she has many years experience in the adult industry. She explains you need to market and promote yourself on social media to get people interested in you and gain subscribers.You cannot get famous overnight. Her subscribers give her free expensive lingerie. Her goal is $ 7,000 t0 10,000 USD a week.

She explained that she had people complain to her about photos being leaked outside of the Only Fans platform and she said " you cannot be in this industry and think photos are not going to leak out"

She knows a lot of high profile sex workers in Australia and films with them. She said that a lot of instagram followers unfollowed her after they knew she was having a baby and sent her hate for having a baby. Because she is in the industry they assumed her daughter will get bullied because of her mum's job at school.

Sex workers can be great mums if they work online and work at home but don't work as an escort when your kids are still young because you need to be there for them. She does a lot of work at home which is good. Billie said she will be honest with her daughter on what she does when her daughter get older.

Billie said it is hard to be with a guy that accepts her for who she is because men are excited they are having sex with a porn star but when that fades they realise that Billie is a person who wants a relationship outside of work as she needs her relationship needs met. Of course she is not in a relationship with her co creators because they work together to make money for themselves and to impress subscribers.

Billie Beever seemed Charming and Narcissistic because she uploaded a video on tik-tok filming herself in a nail salon. She was complaining about men not wanting to date her because she works in the adult industry, and had enough of men rejecting her romantic advances even though they tell her that she is 'the ideal woman' . Men want to be friends with her , sleep with her and respect her but refuse to date her because of her adult work history and past. She thinks having her homemade porn on the internet is a turn off for men. Men want to have sex with her but never take the connection further.

She needs to get real you can't expect to be in the adult industry and think that men want to date you. Men will think of you differently because they may enjoy watching your adult movies as entertainment or enjoy your company as a topless waitress or stripper. In escorting they may want sex because they are not having their sexual needs met as male clients may be single parents , busy businessmen or men who are unhappy in their relationships that are not having their sexual needs met by their partner. Sometimes making a lot of money in the adult industry may not make you emotionally happy cause at some point you want to have a love life.

You have to sacrifice your love life if you want to be in the adult industry. But some sex workers have supportive partners.

Billie was so sweet to me when we spoke on Only Fans. I did not want to subscribe to her account for long as i am not a horny bloke who wants to look at her naughty videos. I gave her 5 dollar tip to appreciate Billie as she needs the money as she is a mum.

Billie replied back: "Aww girl you don’t have to do that! You are so sweet! Thank you!.This isn’t for everyone don’t feel like you failed at all it’s really hard job to keep up with x".She also said "Sex work will be shamed for ever… but everyone does it! It’s wild to be. You just gotta not care about what others think x"

I feel supported from sex workers the most because they understand what i am going through. I wish i met her in person and hug her for support.Her parents are more supportive and accepting more than mine. They see her as a hard worker.

Jenna Love

Jenna Love is slightly different to Billie. She's 10 years older than me.She is a strong advocate for the decriminalisation of sex work. A secretary for the sex work organization called Scarlet Alliance. She has a few open relationships. They are not really my thing but she can do that as she is very open and sexually curious.

To me sometimes i don't think it's very nice to do sex work when you have a partner because your partner may be mad that you are focusing on your subscribers or your clients instead of their sexual needs.

But some may not have a problem at all and may be %100 supportive of sex workers , see your job as a business and sees it as a business transaction.Because of this you need to avoid feelings for the people you are doing your business transaction with. Especially when Jenna is married and she does not want her husband to be in the public eye. I imagine it would be challenging having an open relationship having sex with many people and it would be mentally challenging pretending to be attracted to some of your clients. Then you come home to your husband and you act differently in your personal life.

Jenna lives in the Blue Mountains in NSW. She owns her own website to advertise her sexual services. She speaks with a friend on her podcast about various topics and guest speakers. She does Only Fans and create her own porn. She lives in NSW when sex work is decriminalisation because it's more safer for the sex workers to work down south as she can go the police when she is a victim of a serious crime and they have to take it more seriously.

Jenna explains that Only Fans is not easy money unlike what the general public thinks.She has to change a lot of sheets as she is a squirter which i find it funny.She finds Only Fans empowering.

Because in countries when sex work is illegal dangerous men do prey on sex workers more because they are less likely to report to the police as they are scared getting arrested and they work in dangerous working conditions to avoid arrest.

She spoke highly of me on her podcast and i sent her a message online on OnlyFans. She replied back that 'People need to be financially independent ,but again family comes first. The stigma makes it hard to make money it's unacceptable!.

Coralea Jade

She likes dressing up in cosplay and she puts it up on instagram. She started an only fans page because she wanted to set up a gym.She has a daughter in primary school but does not want her daughter to tell people that she is only fans because she does not want other parents to bully Coralea for being on the platform and have parents tell her that her kid cannot be friends with her child anymore.

I don't blame her because there is a few stories online about kids of Only Fans creators getting kicked out of schools because their mum is on Only Fans. It's not fair for the kids to be dragged out into disagreements between adults .

Her content is different from other creators on the show because she likes to do naughty cosplay on Only Fans.

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