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Why You Lost Your Boyfriend? Let's do the sincere examination of conscience

And get your ex back.

By Magdalena LiberdaPublished 12 months ago Updated 12 months ago 4 min read
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Yes, I know exactly how you feel right now. I know this feeling of being abandoned sucks. There is no doubt about it. Sometimes you can go crazy thinking about everything that went wrong in your relationship, what could have gone better, what you shouldn't have said but did say.

Understand what happened.

You have to understand that what was between you is over. You can't go back to it, but you can write a new chapter. Your relationship is over, whatever it was. You are no longer attractive to your ex. And, of course, not because you left dirty laundry at home or because you put yourself first. You have lost your former attractiveness because what was her subject has faded, and nothing else has appeared.

And yes - I will be rough now, but it's your fault. In your past relationship, you have lost balance between doing things that were important to each of you individually. However, there are ways you can "re-attract" your ex-boyfriend. First, you should understand why he dumped you.

Then you will find out precisely what you need to do to get it back if you want it. But an examination of conscience must be made.

Your examination of conscience.

And that's what I call the list of the six deadly sins that, when committed in relationships, lead to their breakup. It doesn't matter whose fault it is. Now, I'm not saying that just because your ex left you, you did all of them. However, the odds that you have demonstrated at least one of these qualities are excellent. And that was more than once enough to abandon your soul mate.

Well, let's start.

The first cardinal sin is a problem that more than half of the women in their relationships struggle with, and it is excessive control over your man. Women who impose their filter of expectations and unrealistic limitations on men's lives, resulting from complexes or hidden fears becoming unattractive. While asserting your dominance in a relationship is essential, you also need to know when not to test a guy and when to trust him. If you can't do that, don't be surprised if your boyfriend or husband leaves you.

The second deadly sin is weird but kills a relationship like an invisible arrow. It is the constant search for opportunities in the partner to confirm self-esteem or attractiveness. What does it mean? It means you constantly seek your boyfriend's approval or even obsessively try to please him. Asking three times a day questions like "Do you love me?" "Do you like me" or "Do I look fat in this dress? Did you enjoy it?". It can be repulsive in the long run. It's like telling him you're not a confident enough woman who doesn't think you're worthy enough to be with him.

The third deadly sin is when you are constantly jealous. Were you jealous that he flirted with other girls? Maybe he was hanging out with a friend; you felt suspicious. Well, if you show that emotion several times a week, don't be surprised if your boyfriend loses his attraction to you. Jealousy is the ultimate form of insecurity and isn't effortless in everyday life.

What to do next?

So now that you've met three of the top six relationship killers, do you know how you'll "attract" your boyfriend again? Especially if you know you have committed any of the first three sins.

Yes, I know—such a sincere examination of conscience is a difficult step but necessary. Even if your situation seems hopeless now, you can get your ex back, but only if you start doing things that will show your attractiveness again.

I'd like you to please find the guide.

What are these things, and how do you know when to act?

I want to introduce you to a guy whose course I stumbled upon during my relationship crisis. His name is Brad Browning, and he is known as the "Relationship Maniac"—in a positive sense. His knowledge of what to show the guy who is leaving you but you want him back is priceless. This knowledge has helped thousands of women worldwide regain their ex-boyfriends and create even better relationships with them than the first time.

So it's worth using this knowledge because you need a guide now in these difficult times. The person who guides you and will show you how to behave in upcoming situations. Instead, it should not be your best friend because she may be biased.

Even if you think your relationship with your ex-boyfriend is entirely over, there's a way for him to fall back in love with you and give you a second chance.

And what do many women do when they get dumped? They start begging and begging, sending false signals, doing mean things, etc. They ask for forgiveness and start praying for a second chance, but they don't change anything about themselves and their lives, and that's a recipe for another failure.

So do yourself a favor and watch this free Brad video. You'll hear from him how to get your ex-boyfriend back as soon as possible. You'll also learn three more of the six deadly sins that ruin a relationship.

This video become so popular since its premiere that the page often crashes from overload.

Please feel free to view this video presentation here if you'd like. Hurry up and head up. If I did, you have a chance too.

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About the Creator

Magdalena Liberda

I am Magdalena, a single mother of two children who unexpectedly had to deal with abandonment and single parenthood during the pandemic. As a self-confident, successful woman I'm trying also to stay happy. This writing is helpful.

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