Which one do you choose for cohabitation or marriage?

When it comes to this, women don’t know much, but men do not.

　　 It's like you tell a man: "My dear, let's live together!" He will be very happy, and maybe he will move in the next day. But you tell a man: "My dear, let's get married!" He frowned, and then he said, "Uh... let me think about it again."

　　Because for men, cohabitation is just packing up your luggage, and two people live together; when they are separated, they say hello, and they pack up their luggage and leave without material loss. Once his girlfriend has a child, he can "flick his sleeves and not take away a cloud" because there is no legal restriction, and moral condemnation is worthless.

But marriage is completely different. In addition to material sharing, a man must also leave a mark on the red notebook; if his wife has a child, he must call him a father, and he must have the obligation to raise the child; his mother-in-law and father-in-law are sick, he Also fulfill the responsibility of supporting them. Moreover, once the marriage is not harmonious, the divorce also involves the division of property, but it is not as simple as leaving the house. Look, once in the role of husband, men are no longer easy.

Back then, Luo Dayou and Li Lie lived together for 11 years. During an interview, he once told reporters: "We got married for so long because we felt that we should be more responsible for the marriage. On April 7, 1999, we walked together on the streets of New York. I walked past a town hall where the marriage was registered, and walked in on a whim. We got married in a state of least stress." However, after only one year of marriage, the two divorced. There are different opinions on the reasons for divorce, but the truth is obvious: marriage and cohabitation are different.

　　 You should always understand now, right? Why was there nothing when the two of them lived together? After they got married, all the problems suddenly appeared. Just because of the phrase you said "Will you be with me?" and the phrase "Will you be with her forever?" the priest said-the two sentences are very different. And this is the difference between an oral promise and a legal promise.

Claude LeRouch, a legendary director who spanned several eras of French cinema once said this: "People keep moving forward, but love is going backwards. In the last century, I wrote a letter to my lover. Letter, it takes at least two weeks to arrive, and two weeks to reply. These four weeks are wonderful. Love requires imagination. When you received a 3-page love letter, you might have to read it 20 times. Prepare for love My mood is more interesting than love itself. I think that men and women before are happier together than they are now."

　　 Where is the best place for love? It lies in missing and imagined. I can't see you, can't touch you, but I can feel that I am thinking of you, and I can imagine that you are thinking of me. How wonderful it is. When you get home from a date, you can continue to be immersed in the date. A text message from him can evoke your thoughts again. This is beautiful, isn't it?

　　 But once you live together, the best part of these loves disappears. When I come home after a date, he does his things and you do your things. There is no aftertaste and no miss, because he is there, you can see him, and he can see you. Wow! Assuming that from the beginning of the relationship, he can see you every day without missing or missing you, don't you find it boring and boring?

　　Women, should enjoy the best part of that stage at every stage of life. In love, women should enjoy the process of missing and being missed by men as they should. If you insist on choosing to live together, I can only feel sorry for you.