What advice do you have for girls?

What advice do you have for girls?

These 10 tips are all about you and are sure to help you.

1. Being cool is higher than being pretty.

Cool is not to see the female rapper dazzling on the stage, then excitedly bought the same Aj, put on the OVERSIZE coat wear straw hat; It is not the handsome photos of the major platform bloggers, on - taste imitation.

Cool girls, will not be limited to the surface, she should have strong confidence, have their own view of the world, will not follow the crowd, will not be submerged in the crowd, you - eye can see her.

She's not something you can easily win over. Not only does she impress the opposite sex, she's generally both genders.

2. Not telling the whole story.

There's a famous quote from Belmoord in Conan:

a secret makes a woman woman.

In any case, being seen through is a very bad thing, whether to friend or foe. Keep a hand in everything, even if you never use it, you will be at ease a lot. Do not easily reveal the card, to maintain a certain degree of mystery, is the source of charm, the history of the disaster of the country's women, all the people can not understand.

How to be mysterious for a long time? The answer is ugly: keep learning, keep getting better.

3. Jane is young, take more photos and record more.

Whether you think you look good or not, being young right now is the most gorgeous time of your life, the most beautiful years. Be sure to take more photos and record your life.

I don't care if you're real or not. I'm not going to sit around wondering how many haircuts you've had, how much makeup remover you go home with at night, or how many cosmetications you've had.

I just love seeing pictures of you looking good and confident.

4. When you meet someone you like, go after them.

While you're still trying to figure out how to get to know him gracefully and awkwardly, the expert may have just said, "I crave your body. Would you like to date me?" I just grabbed someone and ran away.

Like the body, like the soul, think it out and act on it. Confession is not to win, but to their own account. When you take the bold step, the goal has been achieved. The worst thing is never to lose or never to have, but to lose yourself after these disappointments.

It has been my observation that the more seemingly unattainable people are, the more eager they are to be approached. The colder the exterior, the hotter the interior is.

Your problem is one of courage.

5. Don't talk in crowds.

The girls' dormitory is much more complicated than the boys' dormitory. The relationship between people is intertwined. You never know what the person who is talking in front of you will say when you turn around.

Words are swords that are drawn and never put back.

Do not speak ill of any one person, much less of a group attack it.

The person who likes to tell people's shortcomings behind their backs will not be truly recognized by the listener.

6. At all times, please remember that you are yourself and others are others.

Especially in a comfortable environment, you should be wary of where your comfort comes from, because of the external environment, or because of enough independence. I especially like a saying: only engraved in their own body is the most stable, the most reliable.

It can be a skill to be good at (like Xiao LAN's Taekwondo) or it can be strong enough to be a jerk at heart.

Get out of your comfort zone and prepare yourself more. No matter you are a student or an office worker, don't spend your spare time by watching TV series or playing video games. This is how peers widen the gap. Set aside at least a little time each day to improve yourself. I especially recommend starting with small things that will keep you going.

The most striking feature of this kind of thing is that at first you think it is too simple, but if you keep learning, one day you will find that a seemingly insignificant habit, 20 to 30 minutes a day, can make you become an irreplaceable presence in your company or department. A raise and promotion are not far behind

For example, some time ago, the company asked me to collect industry-related data of the past five years. At first, I felt very headache. Later, I learned that Python can be used for data analysis. I used to be able to handle the troublesome data analysis, which greatly improved my efficiency. Before, I was completely confused about code, which was able to overcome the psychological burden. The main reason is that the course of "Nocturnal programming" is very suitable for Xiaobai. The content is simple and easy to understand, and the basic knowledge is comprehensive, solid and systematic.

7. Temperament is gradually higher than appearance.

When a girl is told she has temperament, she will be more happy than being told she is beautiful. As time goes by, the things you experience, the books you read, the things you think about, will become your inner temperament. This trait will become more and more solid, gradually have a calm core.

It's hard to notice when you're young, but in middle age, when you have children, all the characteristics of temperament are exposed: the lines in the eyes, the eyes, the expression, the posture, the tone of voice. Elegant, irascible, gentle, acerbic, temperament is also a variety of.

To develop a good temperament, simple but not easy, from now on, as long as the content of my answer to do seven or eight out of ten, and then insist on exercise, your temperament can not be bad.

8. A girl who laughs and likes is lucky.

Stop your thumbs up. I'm talking about you.

9. Clean your room and dresser regularly to keep your room from getting too messy.

A lot of girls are beautiful outside, but their house or dormitory is messy, even can be regarded as a garbage factory (don't ask me how to know) girls have a lot of things, clothes, all kinds of bottles and cans, it is very troublesome to put away, but still have to put away.

If the room is always messy, the beginning is just a messy room, but for a long time people will follow the mess. Because the placement of objects is related to the heart. A cluttered room is like a person who has been working and studying for a long time, but has never taken the time to review and think, which is just wasting themselves and achieving little.

For tips on how to clean up your room and your mind, read Eiko Yamashita's book. If your room is a mess at the moment, I suggest you look online to get started.

Don't buy physical books! (It's not that physical books are not good, but that they occupy a lot of places. I suggest that I will directly read the general fiction books online.

10. Feel low, but don't be negative.

Many friends say they have low self-esteem.

A little low self-esteem is good and normal. The earth is a grain of sand in the universe, and human beings are more insignificant, this kind of inferiority is engraved in the human gene. But you see, it is not because of inferiority that human beings feel inadequate, just to develop to today?

Low self-esteem can let you see the shortcomings and defects, you have a reason to become better. It was originally neutral or even good.

The bad thing is to fall into the plot of inferiority, always thinking of inferiority this thing, so it will be worse and worse, more and more narrow, just like Ye Zang in the "Human Loss". If someone says he never inferiority, it must be bullshit, even their own imperfection are afraid to admit, just exposed his inferiority.

If you're stuck in an inferiority complex, take it from me.

1. Accept low self-esteem, but think of it as something that lives in your body but is not equal to you.

2. "Inferiority" is actually to do pyramid scheme, and it to keep a distance, and it can learn how people are fooled, you will be smarter and more powerful. Because it's a pyramid scheme, so you can't get too close to it, otherwise it's easy to get sucked in.

In short, inferiority is human nature, I think I always can't get rid of this nature, it has nothing to do with negativity, but is a real feeling.

Therefore, please don't use low self-esteem as an excuse that you are too lazy to change and stop moving forward.