Top 10 Things That Men Appreciate About Women

What would a top 10 things that men appreciate about women look like? No, no: "breasts, feet, buttocks, eyes, lips, hair, neck, skin, hands and private parts"! The very important things that men admire, appreciate, and look for in a woman with whom they want more than a short affair are very similar to those that women want in men!

Let's see what a real top 10 things that men appreciate about women look like:

Appearance and care. 

Appearance is not the most important thing, but it is the first on the list because it is the first to be noticed, the first to attract attention! No one can say with all his heart that he doesn't care at all about his physical appearance! What do you see for the first time in a woman or a man? What does it look like - logical! Men appreciate, of course, a beautiful figure and an attractive physiognomy! You don't have to be a model - in fact, too much beauty makes some men not approach you… 

But you have to have a "je ne sais quoi", a certain sex appeal, which is related to how you look, how and how you know how to value yourself. And so we come to part two: personal care. Yes, men raise their eyebrows ironically when they hear of all the feminine care rituals. But the truth is that he appreciates a woman who takes care of her and knows how to value her physical qualities! He appreciates it all the more as she does not give in to an ear and continues to take care of herself even after a time of relationship (which many women forget or ignore to do, starting to walk in wide pajamas, unstacked and uncombed around the house ) Even if he tells you "I like what you look like when you wake up in the morning", that doesn't mean you stay like that all day…

Naturalness. Do you feel like you're struggling with care? Not really. The second place in the top 10 things that men appreciate about a woman is really important! Women who appear to be wearing a makeup mask and are simply fake attract at most sexual desire, not appreciation! You have to take care of yourself and give off a natural, casual, light look. As a hairstyle that looks sloppy and a natural makeup requires hours of preparation, that's something else. But naturalness means more than appearance - it's about the whole person: how you behave, how you talk. Falsehood does not attract anyone.

Sense of humor. Knowing how to take a joke as a joke, knowing how to make a joke - this is something that is appreciated by a woman! Because women often take things too seriously and are even offended by harmless jokes! Making a man laugh sincerely is the first step to his heart… And knowing how to laugh at his jokes is the second step… Especially after a long time together, it is so important to laugh at his jokes - even if it is a tenth time you hear them - it's just a simple way to show him that he can make you laugh, that you appreciate him. And knowing how to laugh at yourself is important - many people, women, and men take themselves too seriously…

Intelligence. The sharpness of mind is the 4th place in the top 10 things that men appreciate in women - and rightly so! Of course, we are not talking about superior intelligence - in general, men avoid women who surpass them in intelligence. But to show that you know something, to be able to have a slightly deeper conversation, to have personal principles, to understand what he wants to say - essential things. You can laugh as much as you want at his jokes, if you don't show him that you understand him and that your mind works, in vain…

Appreciation and a good listener. How do you impress a man? Showing him how much he impresses you! To show that you appreciate him, that you admire him, that he attracts you - important things from the beginning to the end. In addition, you need to prove that you know how to listen - to listen, without interrupting. Some women don't know how to listen - he says something, and she starts talking about what she suffered yesterday… When you show that you listen, you don't interrupt, you answer properly, you show that you care. And to care - another important thing! Like women, men feel the need to know that the one next to them feels something, that he cares, that he is, indeed, with them…

Things in common. What does a man appreciate if he has nothing in common with a woman - a hobby, an interest? It shows them that they can get along with her and that they are compatible. Even a small thing, like the same favorite book or the same band, makes the difference.

Independence. This does not mean "I do what I want, when I want because I am free to do it", but a confident attitude and the ability to manage on your own, without immediately running to ask for help! An independent, fulfilled woman who has a profession and can do it at any time is attractive - but up to a point. Do not exaggerate with the spirit of independence and return from time to time to the scene with the man who saves you from difficulty! After all, the man is the strongest - but today's woman must also show that she has strength. Independence also means asking for the right to your own time and space and in turn giving the man next to your time and space for him - in other words, not suffocating him.

Disinhibition.

We also come to sexuality - the 8th place in the top 10 things that men appreciate in women.

An eternal discussion: virgin, inexperienced, shy, and "pure" or seductive, with sexual experience and uninhibited? In general, in the middle: men don't want a very experienced woman who has had a lot of sexual partners - this shows them that she is not too pretentious, but no shy virgin hiding under the blanket (sex with a virgin is more of a fantasy). More important, however, than the sexual experience a woman has, is how she perceives her body, sexuality and how free, how uninhibited she is in bed! A woman who turns off the light and is content to sit under it is not very exciting… A free attitude - but not extreme, in bed is appreciated - after all, sex is something beautiful and we must enjoy our sexuality!

Spontaneity. Start dancing or singing for no reason. He suddenly proposed "let's go to the mountains". Hug him for no reason. Having sex when you least expect it. Send him a nice message. Understand that not everything has to be planned. A spontaneous woman is especially attractive because she shows that she knows how to enjoy life and forget about problems.

Cooking. Probably some men would protest: a modern woman no longer needs to know how to cook! However, men appreciate a woman who cooks: and not because of the food, but because a woman who wants to cook for him shows that she cares! He shows that he wants to take care of him and pamper him! So you don't have to be a talented cook, you have to show that you want to cook for him from time to time - in a way, it's an intimate gesture. About the food: men appreciate women who have a normal relationship with food, who can enjoy a pizza, not those who just nibble on salad leaves and count the calories on each cereal bar! Of course, having a balanced diet is appreciated - but without becoming obsessed with diets…