Second Chance at Love
Second Chance at Love

The Unexpected

by Ashley 2 years ago in love

There Is Hope

The Unexpected

Let me tell you a story about my ex and I. Him and I were together for a pretty long time, on and off mostly, and to be honest, I was definitely in love with him. There was this one time I was at my friends house, and everything was going fine, but then my (ex) boyfriend stop replying to my texts and started to ignore me. I tell my friend to text him and to see if he's busy, or if he's just ignoring me. Well, turns out he was definitely ignoring me. So I text him saying that I know he's ignoring me and that he NEEDS to talk to me since obviously we're in a relationship. Next thing I know, he breaks up with me. Days past and I found out he had actually been cheating on me. I was devastated for days, I could barely get out of bed. After a week or two, I started to feel a little better, but I was definitely a different person. I started hanging out with the wrong crowd, doing stupid things that I shouldn't have been doing. I ended up getting with a guy who I knew I should not have been with. He defiantly got me into some trouble. I was not the little innocent girl I used to be. After about three months, I decided to text my ex because I was so depressed and mad at everyone, so I sent him a message that said, he'd promise to never cheat or break up with me, and I take promises serious. We ended up getting into an argument, which made me feel even worse about myself, but I felt like I needed to confront him about what he has done to me and how he ruined me and how he promised all these things. A few days later, he had texted me asking if I wanted to hangout with him, I of course said no because I was still very mad about what had happened the other night, and I thought 'why the hell would he be inviting me to hangout after we had just got in a fight not even two days ago', but one of my friends texted me and convinced me to go. So I went, I was very nervous and also very agitated. But I don't regret going, because he had brought a friend with me and his friend turned out to be the love of my life and I never expected it.

Even though you were in love once, you can always be in love again. And that there is still hope, especially if you got out of a huge break up with the person who you thought you were going to be with for a long time. The right person will come when you least expect it, and yes it takes some time. Sometimes they'll come to you sooner than others, but sometimes you just have to wait. You just have to learn to be patient and to never give up. Sometime, you also need to realize you do not need someone to make you feel like you are worth anything, you are worth something, even without someone. You do not need anyone in your life to make you feel loved, because you are perfect, with or without someone. If someone has broken your heart so bad that you feel like you have nothing left to live for, then he/she was not the one, because no one should ever feel that way, especially about someone who broke your heart. You are going to go through so many heart breaks before you finally find the one who you are suppose to be with for the rest of your life. You are one heart break away from finding the one.

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Ashley

Just a girl trying to get her feelings out through the one thing she likes to do, WRITE

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