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The Best Part About Dating Foreign Women

International Dating with Foreign Women

By Nadiya KovtunPublished 2 years ago 3 min read
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Finding love can often be stressful. It can lead to rejection, heartbreak and oftentimes, we feel compelled to do things we’re not comfortable with.

An older friend of mine used to say dating had gotten much harder compared to how it was when he was in his 20’s.

“The dating game has changed,” He said. He shared with me that his traditional old world views were challenged as he tried to navigate his way into the dating scene.

“I love how women are becoming more independent. It’s definitely not a bad thing. But some of their standards are way too high!”

Women in his country seemed to be more interested about his finances, his career trajectory, and if he has everything in his life in order. Some of them even ask for his height measurements.

“What is this world coming to?”

He didn’t ask for much. All he wanted was to find a simple woman who he could settle down with. Someone who would take care of the house if he was away. A partner whom he could rely on if he got stuck in a bad situation.

He knew finding a woman like that could be slim in his own country. So he decided to try international dating.

To his surprise, he struck gold.

He found plenty of beautiful women from around the globe looking for the same thing as him.

Best of all, they were satisfied with what he had to offer.

A year later, he was happily engaged to a Filipino woman from Manila.

He told me it was the best decision he’s ever made.

Less competition

People say ‘dating is just a number’s game.’ And they’re right. When you’re in a dating pool, the number of people in it can be a factor on whether or not you’ll find someone you’re socially compatible with.

And with online dating, the dating pool has just gotten bigger. The advantage is having a wide array of options to choose from. But the bad thing about it is there’s also too much competition.

In order to really stand out, you need to be really amazing. For some men, this means fitting into the male beauty standard. Others interpret it as being an entrepreneur with tons of disposable income.

The thing is, peacocking with foreign women isn’t very effective. Many foreign women don’t need their potential mates to be incredibly rich or handsome. Some of them are satisfied with what you can offer them.

Traditional gender roles

The western approach to dating is often about gender equality and mutual respect. While other countries still adopt the traditional gender role paradigm.

Many single men, especially older ones, may prefer to have relationships that stick to the traditional gender role paradigm. It’s what they’re familiar with as they grew up watching their own parents.

Because foreign women were also raised by this paradigm, men find this aspect appealing when determining a girlfriend candidate.

Are you ready to meet single Foreign Women?

Many western men also share similar experiences. They got tired of playing the dating game in their country. So they tried international dating.

Turns out, they found foreign women more agreeable and easier to have a relationship with compared to the women in their country.

Now, most of them are in happy and satisfying relationships.

If they had stuck to what society has made them believe they should do, these western men would still have been single as you read this.

We are all oblivious to what the future holds for us. While you can't turn back the clock to make things right, you still have now to make up for what you think you've lost.

Nadiya Kovtun. Professional Matchmaker and Dating Consultant for 1st Choice Dating

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Nadiya Kovtun

Professional Matchmaker and Dating Consultant for 1st Choice Dating

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