The Beneficial and Innocent Effects of Flirting

What good is flirting? If you are involved in a stable relationship, you may find that you no longer have to deal with flirting, that you no longer have a reason, that you don't need to, and that your partner would get annoyed enough to find out that you are still flirting. sometimes with other men/women!

But a small innocent flirtation, from time to time, makes you feel better and has beneficial effects on your mood. Why?

● First of all, an innocent flirtation proves to you that you are still attractive! Maybe your partner hasn't given you too many compliments lately, but, on the contrary, he started to criticize you: "you got a little fat", "that dress was better for you last year", "why you don't do the gym the same way someone does, look what muscles she has "," alas, your hair is falling out " better, better in your skin! All people who have or have had longer relationships know-how demoralizing their partner's criticism can be…

● So, a little flirtation makes you feel better and - very importantly - increases and strengthens your self-confidence! And self-confidence and high self-esteem are essential in your professional life (so as not to get trampled on), family life (knowing how to impose your point of view), and love life. (show your partner that you value yourself so that he/she will also value you at your true value!). Remember: a self-confident couple partner is easy to manipulate and influence! And although it seems extremely superficial, the physical appearance and the knowledge that you are admired by more people are important in strengthening this trust!

● What good is flirting? It puts you in a happier, more playful mood! It helps to look at things more optimistically, not in a gloomy perspective - for example: "Alas, my partner said I gained weight, is he right, what am I doing?", But rather: he likes it, someone else likes it "! Seeing that more people admire you can not hurt you as long as you are a person with your feet on the ground and you are completely safe from the risk of suddenly considering yourself a Fat-Frumos or a diva!

● Not refusing a little flirtation at first helps you to see what kind of guys/guys you have been attracting lately! If you have been in a relationship for a long time, you may have forgotten what kind of people are most attracted to you, and being open to innocent (usually nonverbal) communication reminds you of your target! That's out of curiosity! "

● By flirting, you make sure that you don't limit yourself and that you still know how to communicate nonverbally with strangers, to send a correct message like "I like you too"! Many people who are involved for a few years in a relationship - which then ends and enters the market of love dating as if they come from Mars! They are so clumsy and clumsy! If a contest were organized, it would be extremely easy to spot those who haven't been dating for too long: they forget how to behave casually, how to look comfortable and confident, how to communicate nonverbal with someone without seeming too eager… forget various important signals during flirting…

● With a little flirtation, you can make your partner a little jealous! This is not usually a bad thing! Jealousy - in moderation - helps a relationship, rekindles the attraction between partners. It helps the jealous person to remember why he was so attracted to his partner and why he wants him only for himself and it helps the person who caused the jealousy to feel better, to see that he is still wanted. (a)! Especially for men, it is good advice: make your girlfriend from time to time - and without exaggeration - jealous, because the jealous woman at the moment is passionate and takes care to satisfy you (once she sees that there are others interested)!

● And finally: a little flirtation makes you ambitious, makes you think seriously about your appearance! Is it that since you have a more stable relationship, you kind of neglect yourself and pay much less attention to how you dress and take care of yourself than before? Well, after a little flirtation, can you tell yourself when you look in the mirror: "Even in this way I liked someone, but what if I had to take care of myself"? Just because your partner loves you anyway, doesn't mean he wouldn't like to see you more arranged, at least when you're out on the town!

If you are not involved in a stable relationship, you have even more reasons to accept a little flirtation! First of all, a light, open, cheerful, optimistic attitude attracts the world in general! Instead, a closed, withdrawn, sullen attitude puts everyone on the run - and it's not just possible suitors, it's people in general! A flirtation has never killed anyone - even if that person doesn't appeal to you or you don't intend to take the next step, don't refuse to flirt!

And last but not least, the headline made you read this article. Never say that it is impossible to meet someone special through a flirtation in a place! It's not true, you have no way of knowing when a magic flame suddenly comes out of a subtle glance!

Yes, an innocent flirtation is advisable, but with some common sense limits:

● Not everywhere - in public places such as hospitals, schools, churches, at work, or the home of relatives it would not be advisable to start flirting with a stranger!

● Not with anyone: no matter how much you feel like playing a little and feeling attractive, refrain from flirting with good friends, co-workers (especially superiors), or your friends' boyfriends/girlfriends! And not with attractive strangers who are at the table with their partner!

● Not anyway: if you are involved in a relationship, a flirtation should remain a flirtation! Don't go to the next step, don't have a long conversation, always say when you're more serious about the truth - that you have a stable partner - and refuse any offer!