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What you need to navigate your love life; advice about dating, healthy relationships and dealing with your overbearing mother-in-law.

Your Life Doesn’t Feel Real Anymore
There’s a strange feeling that’s hard to explain, but once you notice it… you can’t unsee it. Your life doesn’t feel fully real anymore.
By mike4 months ago in Humans
You Act Like You Have More Time Than You Do
You don’t think about it every day. Not really. You wake up, go through your routine, do what you have to do, maybe waste a little time here and there, maybe delay something you said you’d start. And it feels fine. Normal. Like there’s always tomorrow to fix it, always later to get serious.
By mike4 months ago in Humans
You’re Addicted to Distraction
You don’t notice it at first. It feels normal. You check your phone for a second, scroll a little, watch something quick, reply to a message. Nothing serious. Just small breaks in your day. But those small moments start adding up, and before you realize it, your time is no longer yours.
By mike4 months ago in Humans
Comparison Is Quietly Ruining Your Peace
You don’t always notice it when it starts. It’s subtle. You’re scrolling, watching, observing. Someone your age is doing better, moving faster, achieving more. At least, that’s what it looks like. And without even thinking too much about it, something shifts inside you.
By mike4 months ago in Humans
You’re Not Stuck — You’re Just Comfortable
A lot of people say they feel stuck. Stuck in the same routine. Stuck in the same mindset. Stuck in a life that doesn’t really excite them anymore. They talk about wanting change, wanting something different, wanting to feel more alive.
By mike4 months ago in Humans
You Don’t Talk About What’s Really Bothering You
Most of the time, when people ask you if you’re okay, you say yes. Not because everything is actually fine, but because it’s easier that way. Easier than explaining something you don’t fully understand yourself. Easier than putting complicated thoughts into words. Easier than risking being misunderstood.
By mike4 months ago in Humans
You Don’t Feel Like Yourself Anymore
There’s a moment that’s hard to explain, but a lot of people feel it. You’re going through your day like usual, doing normal things, talking to people, staying busy… and then it hits you. A quiet thought in the back of your mind: this doesn’t feel like me.
By mike4 months ago in Humans
You’re Tired… But Not From Work
There’s a kind of tiredness that sleep doesn’t fix. You can go to bed early, wake up late, and still feel drained. Not physically, but mentally. Like your mind has been running for too long without a break, even when you’re doing nothing.
By mike4 months ago in Humans
The Fear Machine: How Clickbait Culture Controls the Masses
I wrote this, created, and edited this article. As always I guess I am taking on the Pope. He gave a dire warning to shut everything down. The Catholic Church is another story. No, I will not step one foot into a church. Not because I don't believe but because I do not a building to worship. I disagree with the Catholic or any church that protects men who rape children and women. The authoritarian management style always got on my last nerve. AI is used in medicine, science, electric cars, computers, your cars, your cell phone, and we must learn to use iot for good not evil. I utilize AI tools. I have been copying and pasting since the invention of the copy machine.
By Vicki Lawana Trusselli 4 months ago in Humans
No One Is Coming to Save You
At some point, you have to face a truth that most people spend years trying to avoid. No one is coming to save you. Not the perfect opportunity, not the perfect timing, not some person who suddenly appears and fixes everything for you. There’s no moment where life just becomes easy because you’ve been patient enough or because you deserve it.
By mike4 months ago in Humans
You Miss Who You Used to Be
Sometimes, it’s not a person you miss. It’s yourself. An older version of you that felt different. Lighter. More real in a way you can’t fully explain. You think back to certain moments in your life—not necessarily because everything was perfect, but because you felt more connected to who you were.
By mike4 months ago in Humans
You’re Not Lazy — You’re Just Avoiding Something
Most people call it laziness. They look at their lack of action, their constant procrastination, their inability to stay consistent, and they label it as a discipline problem. They tell themselves they need to try harder, wake up earlier, push more, do better. And for a short time, that might work. They force themselves into action, build a bit of momentum, and feel like they’ve fixed the problem.
By mike4 months ago in Humans