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You Don’t Talk About What’s Really Bothering You
Most of the time, when people ask you if you’re okay, you say yes. Not because everything is actually fine, but because it’s easier that way. Easier than explaining something you don’t fully understand yourself. Easier than putting complicated thoughts into words. Easier than risking being misunderstood.
By mike5 months ago in Humans
You Don’t Feel Like Yourself Anymore
There’s a moment that’s hard to explain, but a lot of people feel it. You’re going through your day like usual, doing normal things, talking to people, staying busy… and then it hits you. A quiet thought in the back of your mind: this doesn’t feel like me.
By mike5 months ago in Humans
You’re Tired… But Not From Work
There’s a kind of tiredness that sleep doesn’t fix. You can go to bed early, wake up late, and still feel drained. Not physically, but mentally. Like your mind has been running for too long without a break, even when you’re doing nothing.
By mike5 months ago in Humans
Flaws And Imperfections
Introduction This was initially inspired by a long-running problem I have with our platform, but I am trying to deal with that but it then got me thinking about how systems should always be flawless and should work, while the flaws and imperfections in our character actually make us what we are.
By Mike Singleton 💜 Mikeydred 5 months ago in Humans
The Fear Machine: How Clickbait Culture Controls the Masses
I wrote this, created, and edited this article. As always I guess I am taking on the Pope. He gave a dire warning to shut everything down. The Catholic Church is another story. No, I will not step one foot into a church. Not because I don't believe but because I do not a building to worship. I disagree with the Catholic or any church that protects men who rape children and women. The authoritarian management style always got on my last nerve. AI is used in medicine, science, electric cars, computers, your cars, your cell phone, and we must learn to use iot for good not evil. I utilize AI tools. I have been copying and pasting since the invention of the copy machine.
By Vicki Lawana Trusselli 5 months ago in Humans
No One Is Coming to Save You
At some point, you have to face a truth that most people spend years trying to avoid. No one is coming to save you. Not the perfect opportunity, not the perfect timing, not some person who suddenly appears and fixes everything for you. There’s no moment where life just becomes easy because you’ve been patient enough or because you deserve it.
By mike5 months ago in Humans
You Miss Who You Used to Be
Sometimes, it’s not a person you miss. It’s yourself. An older version of you that felt different. Lighter. More real in a way you can’t fully explain. You think back to certain moments in your life—not necessarily because everything was perfect, but because you felt more connected to who you were.
By mike5 months ago in Humans
You’re Not Lazy — You’re Just Avoiding Something
Most people call it laziness. They look at their lack of action, their constant procrastination, their inability to stay consistent, and they label it as a discipline problem. They tell themselves they need to try harder, wake up earlier, push more, do better. And for a short time, that might work. They force themselves into action, build a bit of momentum, and feel like they’ve fixed the problem.
By mike5 months ago in Humans
15 Ways Hearing People Accidentally Make DeafBlind Life Harder (Bless Their Hearts)
Being DeafBlind means every day is an adventure, and not the fun, “found a $20 in my pocket” kind. More like the “why is a stranger suddenly grabbing my arm like I’m a misbehaving shopping cart” kind.
By Tracy Stine5 months ago in Humans
Social Media Impacts Women More Than Men
Social media has become deeply woven into everyday life. From Instagram and TikTok to Snapchat and Facebook, billions of people spend hours scrolling, posting, comparing, and consuming content every day. While social media affects nearly everyone in some way, growing evidence suggests that women — especially younger women and teenage girls — experience more negative psychological and emotional effects than men.
By AnthonyBTV5 months ago in Humans
You’re Busy All Day — But You Did Nothing That Matters
There’s a difference between being busy and being productive, but most people confuse the two. You go through your day doing things, responding to messages, checking notifications, switching between tasks, keeping yourself occupied from morning to night. At the end of the day, you feel tired, like you’ve been doing something the whole time. But when you actually stop and think about it, nothing important really moved forward.
By mike5 months ago in Humans
You Feel Empty Because You’re Living on Autopilot
There’s a kind of emptiness that’s hard to explain. It’s not the kind that comes from something going wrong. There’s no major problem, no clear reason to feel bad. On paper, your life might even look stable. You’re doing what you’re supposed to do. You have a routine, responsibilities, maybe even some goals.
By mike5 months ago in Humans