breakups

When it comes to breakups, pain is inevitable, but Humans thinks that suffering is optional.

Angry Love
Dear Güey, I hate that we don’t talk every day. I hate it more that I do not know what we are. I keep forgetting to not take your flirting seriously, that we are 2000 miles away and at closest we were a seat away but never touching. You would never consider a long distance relationship, but we act like something open, wanting to open our mouths to each other but instead giving it to others. And we know about it. We know about each other’s love lives but never mention each other. Why? Because we do not want to admit anything. We do not want to admit that we like each other because we know it’s stupid. Insane. Crazy. In. Love.
By Ariana GonBon5 years ago in Humans
How To Manifest Your Ex Back
One of the greatest and sweetest pleasures in this world is having a significant other half or person. Sometimes these relationships surely do not last. And as a result of that One or even both people from that relationship may wish to try to fix things and give it a try again.
By A.O5 years ago in Humans
Release Guilt After Your Breakup
RELEASE YOUR GUILT AFTER BREAKING UP - IT'S OKAY 1. Understand that in any breakup, it’s normal to feel guilty, angry, bitter, etc. There’s nothing wrong with allowing yourself a certain period of time to get over the relationship and it’s also okay to move on with something/someone new. No one can tell you how long you have to stay SINGLE after a break-up. Though, keep in mind, you will probably be eating away at wishing the other person would have tried harder to keep you. To do better instead of having you feel used.
By Lizzie Martinez5 years ago in Humans
The Red Flags I Ignored and Why I Don’t Regret it
To fall in love is part of life. Because that is the reality in which we live so is heartbreak. To have lived through one (well, hopefully only one) truly is a metamorphic experience.
By Quinn Sandoval5 years ago in Humans
The Soulless Season
Warm words, once fragrant and sweet... now have turned hollow and frostbitten. Beautiful blooms now grown over with thistles and thorns. Trying to speak my heart was painful. I had known her for as long as I kept track of time and now my mindless minutes are spent trying to escape her scent. My chest fills heavy with a toxic mixture of anger and remorse blended ever so softly with sadness as I trudge farther away without looking back..
By Kimberly Stone5 years ago in Humans
Survival is the only option.
Here's the thing you need to know about abusers: there's no look to them, there's no visible identifying trait they all carry that makes you recognize what they are upon seeing them. In fact, most of them, you'd never guess what they do behind closed doors based on the life they forwardly present.
By H. 5 years ago in Humans
Unexpected Pivots Help You Grow
It’s the unexpected pivots, the ones you can't anticipate, that change you the most. My first real pivot happened when I was 18.
By Glad Doggett5 years ago in Humans
The 1 Thing You Need to Remember the Next Time You Get Dumped
A year after our relationship ended, my partner wanted to get back together, but I couldn’t go back. Not for lack of love or desire. But because my ego wouldn’t allow it.
By Stacey Herrera5 years ago in Humans
3 Lessons I Learned After My Failed Marriage - Venita Akpofure
In 2019, news hit the headlines that actress Venita Akpofure had ended things with her now ex-husband and father to her two children, Terna Tarka.
By Jide Okonjo5 years ago in Humans
Letting things go
She set her eyes on the screen holding tightly to her phone anticipating an answer. Waiting anxiously for some notification that would help her ease the pain in her heart. Her heart was already pounding deep, as she pushed her phone back into the pockets of her shorts. Every step she took while running was exhausting as every person she passed by, every building she ran into was like a hidden shadow that was to be unseen and never existed.
By Kiki5 years ago in Humans
Life After My Breakup
During my relationship On the Alaskan airplane sitting comfortably, I await my destinations to Monterey California. A girl that I had a long distance relationship was waiting for me and I couldn’t wait to embark on this new profound relationship performed over a year and a half.On the Alaskan airplane sitting comfortably, I await my destinations to Monterey California. A girl that I had a long distance relationship was waiting for me and I couldn’t wait to embark on this new profound relationship performed over a year and a half.
By Kyle Smith5 years ago in Humans
Flying in a Field of Healing
She opened the box and sifted through the contents. Her fingers ran along the length of the necklace. Her mind ran through the memories. He had given this to her on their 5th anniversary. He found it on the side of the road, but it had her initials and it matched her eyes. It wasn’t about the money back then. It was kismet.
By Angie5 years ago in Humans