Sugar babies/daddies and covid 19

When certain situations hit people turn to sugar for easy money. That's not when you turn to being a sugar baby. If you're turning to sugar baby when you're desperate or in need it can lead to you getting scammed. Also if you are desperate or you come off that way it can scare of potential sugar mama or daddy.

People are turning to sugaring because they are loosing their jobs or are being temporarily furloughed. They shouldn't use this lifestyle because they need something now. If you do this lifestyle because you need this now then you will be discouraged, frustrated or have a rude awakening. There's so many scammers out there that they will prey on people in need sadly. You will not get a sugar daddy tomorrow. Plus I don't know if I will trust the daddy (or mama) that is easy to get. If you do decide to go with the sugar mama or daddies that was easy to get just look out for red flags.

Some sugar daddies or mamas will put up with being used as an ATM or a pay check. You have to think about it that way because you want to be successful at this. If you are doing this for a pay check they will figure it out and leave you. I am not saying this to be a bitch or to be harsh, it's just the truth. That's why I write about sugar, to tell the truth.

There are many reasons why I don't recommend doing the sugar lifestyle just because you need an "in the meantime" pay check. The main reason is it may ruin this lifestyle for the real sugar babies. They will think all sugar babies see them as a cash cow or ATM. This isn't the truth for the real sugar babies. Another reason why I'm against this is they will get tired of getting used like this. In a non crisis based arrangement the sugar daddy is getting a relationship and a companion. Also you can get scammed by the fakes.

You are not guaranteed to find a real sugar daddy on your time line or at all. A lot of people will look at sites like seeking arrangement and say "oh well there is a million sugar daddies on here so I will find one." Well hate to tell you this but you're wrong. Out of those million sugar daddies you have the fakes, the inactive profiles and the guys that don't want you. You're not every guys type of woman.

A lot of people who are wanting to sugar while they are unemployed may not even know how to do this lifestyle correctly. Some people that are doing this lifestyle for more than just a paycheck maybe doing this wrong too. This is why learning what you're doing is so important.

One of my biggest problems with these temporary, mostly desperate sugar babies is that they're just that.... temporary. Why would you go through this work to leave this guy weeks (maybe a few months) later. You should want this to be a long term thing.

Another problem is that they may make all of these insane demands for not many perks for the sugar daddy or mama. They may not want to even hold the guy's hand or see the guy but want a thousand dollars a week. You have to put in some work if you want the money, obviously.

Real sugar babies do this lifestyle for school, and because they want the finer things in life. The daddies may offer to help with housings and other bills but that's up to them. Don't bring that up, that's for them to bring to the table. Ask them what they did for their last baby.

I hope this make sense and helps. This wasn't to bash anyone. This is just honest.