Stop Doing It! — 10 Pieces Of Advice for Men to Not Lose Their Wifes

Love means accepting that we are different!

If you truly don’t want to lose her…

1. Man, love your woman…

… not only when she laughs and listens to you! Love her every moment.

You know… her tears are so heavy

2. Don’t make negative statements and don’t make fun of her if she gets upset.

If you told her something that hurt her, please don’t stubbornly deny that you didn’t. A simple “forgive me, baby, it was not intentional”, will cut the conflict from the start.

Acknowledge your attitude and don’t behave as if the woman’s memory is playing tricks on her and don’t even tell her jokingly that she has mental problems.

Or, worse, if you know she’s been through traumas, don’t put her upset about them. You will deepen her wounds.

3. Don’t be surprised about her attitude and don’t tell her that she perceived everything wrong.

Accept the perceptions and opinions of others, but especially those of the woman next to you.

4. Please stop wrapping insulting or humiliating statements in the form of “innocent” jokes… and then accuse her of not knowing how to deal with a joke.

If she tells you she’s bothered by your joke about her, accept that. Stop showing surprised about it, stop telling her that she has no humor and no quarrel and that she is paying attention to such a simple thing.

5. And if she talks to other men besides you, that doesn’t make her unfaithful. Don’t suspect her or accuse her with “innocent” remarks.

6. Then stop alternating all your ironies and inappropriate remarks with praises and words to claim that you accept her as it is. This is confusing!

7. Stop telling her that her work is not a big deal and meaningless. That what she does is useless because she is capable of greater things. This is her level now. Support her and let her go.

8. Don’t criticize her clothing style, physique, or the extra or minus weight she has.

9. Children are not naughty because of her! Don’t tell it!

10. Stop imposing what is best for her just because you think you want the best for her.

Your wife is an adult, she is not perfect, and she can make her own decisions. And if she makes a mistake in her choices, let the one who has never made a mistake throw the stone!

Stop hitting her emotionally!

Man, just love your woman!

Because all these things will come together at some point. She will get tired. She will be exhausted and she will want to leave.

And then, if you blame her again, her dissatisfaction, her attitude, the upsets that seem unfounded to you, you will do worse.

Maybe you’ve managed to persuade her many times to forgive you.

And she forgave you because she thought anyone could have bad moments.

She forgave you every time because she loved you and believed in your promises.

She forgave you because she hoped it wouldn’t happen again…

Maybe she still forgives you. But believe me, the time will come when she will reach saturation, and even if you move the mountains, she will no longer desire to be your woman.

Please love your wife until it’s too late!

And if it’s too late, realize the real reason why it’s all over.

Man… I don’t want to accuse you or hurt your vanity. I would like you to understand that I wrote all these to you because perhaps you will realize it before it is too late…

Sincerely,

Me, a woman who left a man like you.

And you, dear woman, if you read this message, be strong and send it to him, but also to other women who need it.

I wish you all the best in the world!

This article was first published on my Medium account.

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