Originally, this is "crow law"!

There is a story that goes like this:

A crow and a dove lived in a small forest. One day, the crow was ready to leave, so he said goodbye to his friend the dove.

"Why are you moving away?" asked the pigeon.

"I don't want to move, either," said the crow, "but the people here are too unfriendly to me. They think my noise is too bad and I am not welcome to stay. I really can't stay.

After a long meditation, the dove said to the crow:

My friend, if you don't change your voice, you won't be welcomed wherever you fly.

This is the Crow's law.

If you do not change some of your shortcomings, but blindly choose to escape, then the problem will not be solved, and will be troubled by more problems.

The sign of a person's maturity is that he can often reflect on himself, frankly face his shortcomings and shortcomings, and try to change.

To err is human.

Everyone makes mistakes and no one is perfect.

Blindly blame, can only make the incident worse.

It not only reflects a person's self-cultivation, but also makes things better handled.

Su Shi, a great writer, was persecuted repeatedly by Zhang Dun because of the dispute between the imperial court, and was demoted all the way.

The farthest one, was demoted to "a thousand miles, thousands of knowledge thousands of not return" Hainan.

The harsh climate tortured Su Shi's mental and physical will.

But in the extremity, he also still unfazed, laughed.

In the third year after being banished to Hainan, Song Zhezong died and zhao Ji, Emperor Huizong of Song Dynasty, succeeded him to the throne.

Zhang Dun's son, fearing retaliation from Su Shi when he returned, wrote to Su Shi overnight to beg for mercy.

However, su Shi did not retaliate against the political enemy who had persecuted him. Instead, he sent him a prescription to take care of his health.

His reply was this: "But what has happened in the past is more important than what has happened."

It's all over, so don't mention it any more. Take good care of yourself.

In the face of zhang Dun's past injuries to him, Su Shi chose not to care.

Forgive others as you would forgive others.

It's already happened, and even blaming it doesn't help, it just adds to the annoyance.

Learn empathy, empathy, stop blaming, learn tolerance, life will be more and more smooth, the road of life will be more and more wide.

Nietzsche says in the Other Side of Good and Evil:

"If you fight dragons too long, you become dragons. Stare too long into the abyss and the abyss will stare back."

People's life will meet a lot of unhappy things, unhappy people, if everything to care about right and wrong, in the end will only tired others, but also suffering from their own.

It is not only a kind of attitude, but also a kind of wisdom to not tangle with bad things.

The story of Han Xin's "indecency" is well known.

When challenged by the butcher, Han Xin chose to endure a great insult and go through the butcher's legs.

This just had after worship will seal hou, break qi destroy item, embark on the peak of life.

Voltaire also said:

"It is not the mountain far away that makes people tired, but a grain of sand in their shoes."

Do not entwine is not cowardice, but put down.

None of us can change the existence of bad people, nor can we change the development of bad things.

The only thing that can change is your attitude.

Mr. Yang Jiang once said, "Your problem is that you read too little and think too much."

Reading, is the cure of all the good medicine, those who read the book, will melt in the blood, transformed into a part of temperament.

Chen daoming rose to fame overnight for his role as puyi, a young man in the TV drama The Last Emperor.

He was offered roles in many sets, and he began to get high.

It was not until 1990 that Chen daoming met Qian zhongshu while filming Fortress Besieged.

When he visited Qian zhongshu's home, he found that they had no video recorder, television or telephone.

Qian's wife, Yang Jiang, was reading quietly beside the rows of bookshelves.

At this time Chen Daoming realized: "in front of intellectuals, knowledge, I feel that point of fame is nothing!"

So when he was at his best, he hid and began to watch no TV. The bed in his study was also filled with books. When he was tired, he would sleep in a pile of books.

Ji Xianlin has said that Chen Daoming's literary level is qualified for the post graduate tutor of Peking University.

"Any time you spend reading a book will pay off at some point."

The meaning of reading, not only is the refuge of life, those who do not understand things, can not understand the truth, go out of the dilemma, all the problems encountered in life, can find the answer in the book.

Success and failure in life are determined by themselves. Only by learning to change can you become better and better.

Bad things do not entwine, learn to free their heart;

No matter more reading, find the most true meaning of life.

He who knows others is wise; he who knows himself is wise.

For the rest of your life, be strict with yourself, be generous to others, and work hard, your life will be brilliant.