Once a person's heart is cold

Life is life, that can not be separated from the word "love".

So, what are the real feelings? Many people's hearts, perhaps not a clear answer.

Some people say that real feelings are when the other side needs a hand, and others say that feelings do not need to contact often, as long as you know that everything is fine on the other side of the line.

Sincere feelings, can not be separated from the necessary interaction, the need to communicate to maintain sublimation.

If not communicate and interact, even the closest people, will one day become speechless; wait until that time, and then restoring the relationship, becomes difficult.

There is this old saying.

"Once the heart is cold, it can never be warmed back."

No matter what kind of relationship, are afraid of the rush of time, and alienated from each other; such a result will only make the one who cares about you, feel left out at the same time, but also with regret, to deal with the relationship between you.

Therefore, people who know how to be grateful will cherish the love in front of them, seize the time gap, and each other to maintain some contact, not because of busy work, life is tedious, and left someone out in the cold.

You know, some feelings, you choose to "disconnect", fade.

01

Don't let the distance, cold affection.

When we are young, we do not know what is affection but will stick to our parents, on their side, there will be full of happiness.

Once there is any achievement, we will be the first, hoping to get the affirmation and praise of our parents.

Gradually we grew up, left our hometown, and went to work in a different country. At first, we would frequently contact our loved ones and share what we saw and felt.

As the challenges of work increase and life become more tedious, we become busier and busier, and the interaction with our loved ones becomes less and less every year, and finally, the relationship with our loved ones becomes stranger and stranger, and what remains is just buying gifts and an occasional greeting between us.

We all think that working hard and earning money is for our loved ones to enjoy their old age better.

But in the end, we realize that what our loved ones need is companionship, not how much money we make or how many nice things we buy. Sometimes, talking with them in peace for an hour can make them happy for days.

As you can see, real affection is to interact more, to let our loved ones participate in our own lives, and let them witness our growth, so that they will be truly happy and happy.

02

Friendship needs to be watered by heart.

Many people believe that true friendship does not require daily meetings and daily contact.

Over time, we only need to pay attention to each other silently, as long as the important holiday, send a heartfelt blessing, this is real friendship.

But such a friendship, the last will have a kind of drifting away feeling.

Because, we gradually do not understand each other, each other recently did what, and met what friends, what new ideas, we do not know, and finally lead to each other no longer having any interactions.

I remember once I talked to a good friend I hadn't seen in five years.

She was a teacher in a third-tier city, and I was doing media work in a first-tier, and after we met, we didn't know what to talk about, and we didn't think we knew each other. You know, we were both members of the student council in school, two people as long as they have creative ideas, they will communicate together, so busy that they even forgot to eat the type of meal.

After graduation, we lacked communication and understood less about each other, leading to distant feelings.

Friendship needs to be watered with sincerity, nothing in the circle of friends interaction, on the phone more communication, on important holidays together to dinner and a movie, together to go singing, each other to share what they see and feel. This friendship will last forever.

03

Love, in addition to warmth also need to manage.

A happy marriage requires two people to treat each other sincerely, but also need each other's hearts to manage.

Sometimes, friends around me will complain to me about how bad their spouses are; after listening to them, I often ask a few questions.

Do you know what he likes to eat?

What has he been up to lately?

What are the reasons for your differences?

Have you set aside 20 minutes a day to do one thing together?

A happy marriage requires two people to maintain with care.

We can, every day spend 20 minutes to understand each other, for example, agreed to get off work together to buy food, cook, share the day's work feelings, and views on things, if you encounter any problems at work, you can say out together to discuss, more praise each other, etc., can achieve the purpose of effective communication.

It is important to know that between boys and girls, with different ways of thinking, the areas in which they specialize are also different, only more communication, to understand more, so that the road of feelings, go smoothly some.

Woodcutter's words.

Our growth will usher in different stages, and will also see a different landscape.

Regardless of the stage, it is inseparable from the maintenance of feelings.

Loved ones, which will last throughout our lives; like-minded friends, who may help us out of the valley and accompany us to witness success; and lovers, who will decide the rest of our lives towards a partner, influencing our choices and happiness.

No matter what kind of relationship, we need to cherish it with all our hearts.

Over time, we can not be separated from a variety of fates, but also need to maintain each other's feelings; if, we choose to "disconnect", the feelings are light, do not believe.