Middle-aged men and women, three manifestations of "ambiguous" relationship, stop pretending

It is the most basic principle for adults that the boundaries of heterosexual communication cannot be broken through at any time.

After a person reaches middle age, he should put his mind at home, cherish the people around him, and work hard to manage his own life. This is the manifestation of responsibility.

If middle-aged men and women do not have this awareness, they are often entangled with the opposite sex, and it is easy to make the relationship ambiguous. Once they cross the line, it will eventually bring huge trouble and pain.

In fact, the ambiguity between adults is the most dangerous. If two people have an intimate relationship, no matter what they do, they will lose both in the end.

Therefore, middle-aged men and women should abide by the bottom line of loyalty, take the initiative to keep a distance from the opposite sex, and reject all forms of ambiguity, so as to not lose their happiness.

After all, for middle-aged men and women, the three manifestations of "ambiguous" relationships must be avoided.

1. Chatting without restraint and ambiguous speech

When middle-aged men and women are dating, if the two sides chat without restraint and their words are ambiguous, in fact, the relationship has long been abnormal.

In a normal heterosexual relationship, it is impossible to chat frequently, let alone play ambiguous, and they will pay attention to each other's proportions.

Only men and women who are irresponsible for their relationship can impatiently chat with the opposite sex and like to make some ambiguous jokes in order to obtain the satisfaction of their desires.

As long as there is time, two people will chat, send messages to each other, or meet directly, or even go out on a date together, these behaviors are enough to prove that the relationship is ambiguous.

When people reach middle age, they still have to have a certain degree of self-cultivation, and don't lose their sense of responsibility. If they don't pay attention to each other's influence, they will eventually cause the relationship to cross the line.

In reality, some middle-aged men and women have no sense of boundaries. They always find excuses to meet, and send messages when they have something to do. This kind of behavior is wrong.

Now that you have a family, you must pay attention to proportions, and you must have a sense of boundaries when interacting with the opposite sex.

Otherwise, both sides are not shy, always looking for opportunities to be ambiguous together, and when the relationship turns sour, it will be too late to regret.

Therefore, it is best for middle-aged men and women not to have frequent contact with the opposite sex. Apart from work, it is best not to chat during rest time.

If you really have time, isn't it better to go back to accompany your family? If you spend your time on others, it will only affect your own feelings in the end, and the gains will outweigh the losses.

Especially some middle-aged men and women, they talk about everything together, flirt, and even take the initiative to talk about some private topics. This is not an abnormal behavior and must be avoided.

2. There are intimate behaviors, indicating that the relationship is not ordinary

Middle-aged men and women, if they have intimate behaviors together, it means that the relationship is not ordinary.

Especially when they are alone, they can't help but get close to each other and make some intimate actions. Once there is physical contact, the relationship crosses the line.

For example, when some middle-aged men and women interact, they always hold hands and hug each other. On the surface, they are joking, but they are actually ambiguous.

For another example, when two people go out together, they will subconsciously hold each other's arms, and their bodies are very close, which makes them seem particularly intimate.

The relationship between men and women like this has already changed, and even if they don't admit it, it won't change the ambiguous fact.

Physical contact is actually evidence that the relationship has crossed the line. As long as men and women have intimate behaviors, something will happen sooner or later, and there is no way to hide them.

My friend, Miss Zhang, met a male colleague at work. The first time the two met, they had a good relationship.

Therefore, the two sides added friends and left contact information for each other, hoping to become friends of the opposite sex.

After that, as long as there is time, the two will chat, and after dating for a while, both parties have the idea of ​​meeting on a date.

In this way, the two quickly changed from chatting on mobile phones to meeting in private, and the number of appointments became more and more frequent.

Miss Zhang would hold her male colleague's arm every time, and sometimes the male colleague would put his hand on her shoulder, saying it was to protect her.

In fact, anyone with a discerning eye can tell at a glance that their relationship is ambiguous, but it has not been exposed.

Eventually, after a date, both parties were a little impulsive and inadvertently had an intimate relationship. Afterwards, Miss Zhang felt a little guilty. After all, she was a married woman and felt sorry for her husband.

So, after Ms. Zhang communicated calmly with her male colleague, the two sides stopped communicating, and they didn't even make friends.

Therefore, once middle-aged men and women have intimate behaviors, it is actually a relationship that crosses the line. If they do not wake up in time, they will definitely suffer huge pain and pay a huge price.

3. Share privacy with each other and often send photos to each other

Generally speaking, when men and women are in love, they share privacy with each other and often send photos to each other to convey their love.

However, for middle-aged men and women, it seems very abnormal if they often share privacy and exchange photos when they are in a relationship.

The two of them have a family, but they chat privately and send photos with other people of the opposite sex. This kind of behavior is obviously ambiguous.

If the two sides cannot restrain themselves, it is easy to breed ambiguous feelings and eventually cause the relationship to cross the line.

It is impossible for normal men and women to send their privacy and photos to each other. They all know the boundaries of communication and will not let the relationship cross the boundary.

Only those who are irresponsible for their feelings will talk about privacy with the opposite sex without any shyness, and they do not have the dignity that adults should have.

At work, Mr. Wang met a new female colleague, and he thought she was very beautiful, and he felt a heartbeat when they first met.

So, he took the initiative to find a female colleague to add a friend, and told her earnestly that he would come to him in the future and help her at any time.

In this way, the two began to chat and gradually became familiar with each other. Every day after get off work, the two sides would chat until late at night, immersed in an ambiguous atmosphere.

Later, the relationship between the two sides became more intimate, and both sides would talk about some privacy and thoughts, whether it was a previous love experience or a current marriage, they would talk to each other, hoping to be comforted.

Moreover, the two of them sent photos to each other when they had nothing to do with each other. They both wanted to be appreciated by each other and expressed their love through this. In the end, their relationship became ambiguous, and an intimate relationship happened unexpectedly.

Therefore, if middle-aged men and women often have these actions, they are not shy about privacy, which means that the relationship is not simple, and sooner or later, the relationship will cross the line.

To sum up, middle-aged men and women who have an "ambiguous" relationship will have these three manifestations, so stop pretending.

Chat without restraint and ambiguous words; have intimate behaviors, indicating that the relationship is not ordinary; share privacy with each other and often send photos to each other.

When men and women are in a relationship, once they have these manifestations, the relationship has already turned sour, but both sides dare not admit it.

In essence, an ambiguous relationship is greater than friendship, but less than love. This is the most difficult relationship to grasp.

If men and women cannot restrain their emotions, it is easy for the relationship to cross the line, and they will definitely regret it when an intimate relationship occurs unexpectedly.

After all, middle-aged men and women have families. As long as they betray their feelings, there will be huge troubles and a painful price for each of them.

I hope that middle-aged men and women in reality can abide by the boundaries, reject the ambiguity between the opposite sex, and maintain the most basic loyalty to their feelings. This is the consciousness that adults should have.