Men who treat their wives badly

"Marriage requires patience, long, continuous, full of determination to endure. Two people to the end, the fight is also a 'patience' word."

Everyone is full of expectations and expectations of marriage, the beginning of passionate, after years of polishing and the washing of time, marriage will be as dull as water, those who can not get away from the marriage is not good, but also only "make do with it".

After watching the "Mediation Program" in those young men who did not treat their wives well, in their old age, there is no warm family, and no one asked him to porridge warm affection, they seek the program, hoping that through mediation, so that their wives have hurt to forgive themselves, so that they have a home, a place to live, and old age.

However, these aging men have forgotten about their youth, they feel so long ago, why do women seize not forget, why are old and do not accept themselves. Perhaps, this is the end of "God forgives who" it.

Life, those who are not good for the wife of the man, in the end, can not escape these kinds of endings, their own seeds, the old fruit, can only carry their own.

No one to accompany them in their old age, and end up alone

Aunt Su Min, who has been away for 2 years, returned home for the Mid-Autumn Festival some time ago, expecting to see a "brand new" partner, who knows, when she was busy with household chores, her partner returned to her daughter's house, or the same as before, first with sarcastic remarks, then with a rude verbal blow, followed by a series of actions, and then said a "Shoot what shoot, shoot I am not afraid".

People are old, decades of marriage, see no hope, and no warm home, who would still want to be with such a man? Some people say it is Su Min is now rich, can not see the old partner, before no money to rely on the old partner to live. But they have always lived on AA, even a few dollars of expenses, Su Min old companion to ask her back.

In the community, 78-year-old Master Su lives alone, his children do not come to visit, his partner does not want to accompany. The people who know understand, there is a house for him to live, has been the best ending for him. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you want to do.

The old age, after having a pension, more "for the old disrespect", the outside woman brought home, just to make themselves happy, the mouth also scolded their partners why not quickly die, they can get a license with another woman to remarry.

The children of Master Su could not stand it anymore and took his partner away, leaving Master Su to live alone. He became more reckless, often hanging on the words "women like clothes, need to change often". The family's savings and his pension did not take long to be squandered by him, no money for the man also lost its charm. He wanted his partner to come back and take care of him in his old age, but neither his children nor his partner wanted to. Now that he's old, he can't say that he can't fight anymore, so he can only live by himself.

The little affection between husband and wife has long been depleted under the man's wanton release. In real life, there are many examples of this, men feel that their own advantages can do whatever they want, do not know that "good and evil will be rewarded, the way of heaven is good".

Family disharmony, children resentment

Some people say: the unhappiness of a family, from the wife's mood becomes bad to start.

Marriage and family, men are not good for women, women's mood will naturally be upset, there is no desire to do anything, and even home do not want to return, if not for the sake of the children, perhaps the woman left the man early.

In the movie, the woman is good-looking, often with the help of men to do farm work, the family man suspected that the woman betrayed himself, always in front of the children, the woman beat the nose and face, but also do not give the woman food. The woman really can't stand it anymore, so she used a plant in the folklore, every day to make a bowl of soup for men alone, and after a period of time, the man had a sudden illness and left.

There is also a Japanese movie, the man had an affair, but the woman became best friends with the third party, but also took the initiative to teach the third party to make food for men to eat. The woman often communicate with the third party daily meals, through the food compatibility, the woman at home also to the man to do a good meal, so that after a period of time, the man kidney failure, but said the woman's heart is hard.

Men are not good for women in marriage, not only affect family harmony, more is to bring the inner shadow of the children, so that children are healing childhood grief throughout their lives, and even some do not want to get married, think marriage is too terrible.

35-year-old Xiao Zhao is a tall man, not only successful career, very filial to his mother. But this is such a man, but said nothing to get married, he said to his mother, if marriage is like you and father, I would rather be celibate for life.

It turns out that Xiao Zhao grew up watching his father domestic violence against his mother, if he protects his mother, his father will even beat him together, the family is often porcelain bowls flying all over the place, the furniture was overturned in a mess. Every time his mother held his head and whimpered, then his father was quiet, and his mother cleaned up the room with the pain.

Now Xiao Zhao's father wants to live with them, Xiao Zhao dead set against it, after his father's brain attack, from the hospital directly into the nursing home. Not Xiao Zhao is not filial, but from the heart of such a father respect not up, such an ending is already the best.

What men do when they are young, reflected in their later years, is "karma" retribution, do not blame the wife is not good, and do not blame the children unfilial, men without moral character, is a family disaster, but also the children's misfortune.

Poor human relations no one to take care of, withdrawn and lonely

As the saying goes, the couple is of one mind, their interests break gold. Evil has an evil retribution, good has a good retribution, not unrewarded, the time has not yet arrived, good and evil in the end will be rewarded.

Family discord in marriage, the man's behavior directly affects the luck and fortune of the entire family. Men because of the woman is not good, it seems to be a matter of their own family, but in the eyes of outsiders, is a man without virtue, character, and the problem of being a man.

A woman who does this to the woman who gave birth to his children, does he still have kindness and love? A man who does not raise his own children, but because the woman to raise other people's children, how can have good people, how can have a good old age!

In the psychology of the general public, the family are such a man, the outsiders can have a few sincere true feelings. The surface to say hello to you, the inner heart has long despised you. Even if you really encounter difficulties, outsiders are not willing to help a man who used to fight against his wife, thinking that this is what he should have.

Especially after old age, around all know the character of men, most are respectful and even back to intentionally avoid, so that the wife is not good for men more isolated and lonely, because they tossed, no companion around, and no one wants to care, only lonely sitting in the sun, go home to wash early to bed.

Buddha said: five hundred times to look back before the encounter in this life, a thousand years of waiting before the end of acquaintance, acquaintance, love. Couple is after a thousand years of trials and tribulations, in the human world hand in hand to spend a lifetime together, need to treat each other with care.

The relationship between husband and wife is the first relationship in a marriage and family, the only way to handle the relationship between husband and wife is to have a good family. No matter men and women, please remember, life on the road, accompanied by your longest person, is your side of the old partner, need to be treated with care, cherish each other, rather than bad words, fists and feet, otherwise, the desolation of old age is also self-inflicted.