Love Is Never Ending...Love Is Everywhere...Love Is Us.

To say you love someone is to truly mean it right?

Wrong. Saying you love someone could just be saying it to say it. Not because you have to or because you feel like you're obligated to say it. But because now a days it has become a form of normality to just say it when your joking around with some one to replace the fact that you may have hurt their feelings in one way or the other.

Saying you love someone without that significant meaning behind it, means more to those that really do LOVE YOU. Love is not just saying it though, it is a feeling of emotion. And not just one, but thousands of emotions, that just flow through you all at once and that is what defines love.

All though you have probably been through some rough love triangles where you have feelings for this person while being in a relationship with another, you are confused and are stressing about how you feel with this one other person who has the title of a "friend" but are in a relationship and you love this person, but you also feel those same exact feelings for the "friend" as well.

Most often then not, that "friend", is the opposite sex of your relationship partner. Now here's where it will get a little uncomfortable to read, I am telling this story from other's perspective I have observed over the years.

At first, these feeling mean nothing to you. You love your friend because they have always been there for you and you will love them no matter what, but say one day, something happens and out of the blue you can't stop thinking about them. You think about kissing them for a split second and then push that thought away because, one, that's your friend, and two, now wondering where the hell that thought came from so you shake your head from it and laugh it off.

No big deal, maybe you're tired, and are stressed out a bit with maybe some events going on in your life that a little craziness just so happened to pop in your head and you laugh it off and forget about it. Whatever, right?

But a couple days later, maybe even a week, your hanging out with your relationship partner and this friend that you had a weird thought about and you decided to share it with everyone, shrugging it off like nothing. It is was a silly thing that randomly just popped into your head and everyone laughs. Cool. Got that off your chest. Whew!

Then a while later, still hanging out, you can't help but notice that your "friend" is no longer with the main group and you get weird a feeling that someone is watching you, you look around casually only to catch your friend staring right at you, watching you from the other side of the room. You smile and wave, but they only just smile a small little smile, look down, then back up at you, and then without realizing what you are doing you get up and start to walk towards them.

You two meet face to face and without a second thought they kiss you...then like nothing happened, they head back to main group as if it was a simple hug or a kiss on the cheek, all the while you are left standing there in a daze of disbelief. Your cheeks are getting flushed by every second you think about what just happened. You absolutely cannot believe that what had just occurred, but in a factual reality, it did just happen.

Now your going back to the main group as well still pondering these mixed emotions, these feelings of a "first kiss" kind of thing but with your best friend? You're confused, but try to keep a cool, calm and collected kind of presence for the sake of you partner being right there next to you.

You see that your friend is a pro at acting like they never kissed you and talk with you casually in the group and you try to push past in your mind that they just full on kissed you! How can they be so calm about that? Well, it's a way to let you know that they have always wanted to kiss you, and because you decided to bring up that "crazy" split second thought about kissing them, they took it upon themselves to reveal how they FEEL about YOU by kissing you.

They willfully let you know, that when they say they love you at the end of every get together, they are not just saying it to say it, but they feel that love as well. Even though they are fully aware that you do not return that same kind of love that they feel for you, they know you still love them...just...as a friend. They know they could never have a chance with you, they planned that little kiss for you to have at one point or another and when they saw the opportunity, they took it.

Love is feeling a certain way about someone and showing it. Love is more then just one kind of love. Love is ALL kinds of love. How you feel. What you say. How you say it. Love is everything to someone, and love is nothing to no one. Love does not have a gender. Love is how you feel about a person. Love is how you feel about a place. Love is how you feel about a thing.

There are SO many different kinds of love and so MANY emotions that just flow through us in many different kinds of ways. My favorite saying of all time...Love Is Never Ending...Love Is Everywhere...Love Is Us.