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Love is love? What kind of love is love?

What is love? Is love the sky's the limit? Love is the ends of the earth? Love is dating after sunset? Love is a vow under the stars and the moon? Love is only sweet talk? Is love a boat in the sea?

By yyt iyuPublished about a year ago 4 min read
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What is love?

This question may have to be answered by Qiong Yao, the originator of love.

Story from Qiong Yao want to unplug coma husband Ping Xin Tao nasal intubation, she wants to let her husband die with dignity. The competition comes from Ping Xintao's three children from his first marriage, who angrily scold: "You fell in love when you were young and strong, and now you just kick it away when you are old?"

So Qiong Yao, 78, who vowed not to write any more books, wrote the book, "Before the Snowflakes Fall: The Last Lesson in My Life," which she said Ping Xintao told her to write in a dream.

The book is divided into two parts. The first part discusses how to face death with dignity. People to old age is to die with dignity or for the family want to linger on? No one has a say in this subject except the parties involved. But if old people can choose to leave with dignity, what about young patients? What about children born with hidden diseases? This is indeed not easy to accept the words, so Qiong Yao has always stood in their own Angle to express. The second part is the sweet trifles of Mr. Peace of Qiong Yao. It can only be said that Qiong Yao is indeed Qiong Yao, who pursues love and romance to her old age. Can you imagine a 78-year-old old man chasing her husband and asking: "Do you love me? On second thought, it would be nice for her to live a lifetime of passionate love.

A little digression. Since know Qiong Yao is "small three" since, to her is not too close up, although she has been explained this is a "he chased her escape" abuse love. But one detail is really irritating. When his son was five years old, Mr. Ping said to Qiong Yao, "You wait for me for 10 years. I will divorce my son when he is 15 and sensible." That's a chilling thing to say. If I were Mr. Ping's ex-wife, I'd probably just kick him and fuck you. It is understandable to meet true love after marriage. In order to properly deal with the ex-wife and children of true love after divorce, I admire you as a man. You pretend to hide in the shell of marital responsibility to grievance your "true love", roll!

Again, Mr. Hei. For the first half of his life, he started a magazine based on his ex-wife. Later life, with the novel of Qiong Yao, founded a magazine editor, and then to the publishing house to publish the novel, and then adapted into a movie, and then adapted into a TV series, earning a pot full. Well, this "he ran away from her" love, I don't know whether more love or more profit?

Of course, it's always easy to tell someone else's story. Turn to their own body may not be able to do better, can only say, look at other people's stories, think about their own life, whether it is love or work, or death, the mind can not understand the things, simply to the heart!

If you love without clinging, or clinging together you can overcome it, love can be very beneficial. However, a persistent love, or the idea of persistent love, love is polluted and prone to deterioration. Since attachment can lead to other undesirable tendencies, such as expectation, possession and jealousy, love becomes pure when there is attachment. -- Akang Rinpoche

Love is a strong attachment, affinity, yearning, and selfless and all-consuming emotion between individuals. The premise is to participate as an individual. Love is accepting each other's common and efforts, in the process of growth, toward a destination. Love is in the long run-in road unswerving learn to understand each other's words, after the quarrel, tired can not find the way still did not hesitate to send that "I miss you" message. Love is when I think I am the fire, you are the water, I see you in pouring me at the same time, but panting from outside to hold a pile of wood, "look, this pile of wood is good, do you want to try. Love is winding around thousands of roads, after a hail of bullets, back, or the warm spring smile.

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