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Let's talk about the Male Innocence

Men are grown-up children.

By Angelica TraynorPublished 2 years ago 3 min read
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Let's talk about the Male Innocence
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No matter how well-versed, perverted, mature, or past they may be, men are said to remain children for life.

Age only makes them reinvent the game in many ways, enjoying everything in their innocence. The years only replace the cubes with the car they screw on all day; You will also see 80-year-olds looking for a toy for adults, under the eyes of an old woman who does not understand why she wastes so much time with such things.

The big boys replace when they have the possibility the small train that was rolling on the carpet with a room full of itself and accessories.

Others confuse women with toys, forgetting that they have a soul.

In their innocence, they seldom take things seriously and do not forget to have fun. You will see them living the moment, not making plans like women.

In their innocence they look for a mother all their life, replacing the natural one with the woman who will stay with them for the entire life.

Somewhere in their existence, they stop giving in to the whining angels shouting for their mother, but if they don't cry anymore, that doesn't mean they aren't waiting for someone to soothe and tease them. Women are anatomically more resistant to pain, but a common cold with their pain puts them to bed. And then we forget them, even though the same cold or flu affects us, but we resist better.

Men have been taught not to express their emotions

The Oxford Dictionary defines sensitivity as "the ability to understand people's feelings." But what are sensitive men?

The answer to this question is the same as the definition above. Everyone has the capacity for empathy and we all understand people's feelings. However, men have been deprived of this faculty in the context of certain beliefs in many cultures. According to them, masculinity and strength do not mix with the world of sensitivity and emotions.

There are certainly men who have been raised with the idea of praising emotional honesty. But even such people changed their minds once they came out into the world and realized that the rest of society, which we have built for centuries, prefers to keep their emotions to themselves. People are taught to believe that sensitivity is synonymous with weakness.

Don't cry, be a man! A man without emotions and stubbornness. Men have been taught that emotions are a sign of weakness. Women have learned the exact opposite.

Men are increasingly accepting the emotions they face, and are more open to them, while women become more independent, sexually open, and emotionally reserved. In the end, once we stop impressing someone, we will find a balance - and we will break up with men for not expressing their feelings.

They, when they truly love, in their innocence, will never see the pile of problems that the woman in their life keeps finding; for them, everything is fine as it is, for them everything is perfect and she listens in bewilderment to all the dilemmas that still arise in her mind.

In their innocence, when they see you crying, they run away scared because they don't know what to do. And you start crying harder, thinking they don't care. Or try childishly to make you laugh, change your mood, and get angry that I can't take anything seriously.

And when you get to know a man better, you discover all the innocence in him… because somewhere, in the deepest depths, he is there. And sometimes it's the easiest way to make him happy. Or the easiest way to get to know him through their toys and hopes… through tears.

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