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Is My Ex Happy In His New Relationship (My Ex Boyfriend Seems So Happy With His Rebound)

by Michael Hamilton 3 months ago in dating
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For people who ask the question is my ex happy in his new relationship, the simple fact that these words came to your mind is strong proof that you don't want to easily give up on your relationship and that your relationship is important to you. There is usually one main reason that causes you to be in a position where you're saying my ex boyfriend seems so happy with his rebound.

Is My Ex Happy In His New Relationship (My Ex Boyfriend Seems So Happy With His Rebound)
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If you have broken up with your partner and your ex is involved in a rebound relationship, there is a way to get him back. Okay you and your partner have broken up, and now your ex has found someone else to date. This is called a rebound relationship. It usually happens when a person is having a hard time dealing with a break up and does not want to be alone. Your ex may think that the rebound relationship will help him to move on and get past you.

This can be a good thing as it shows your ex may still love you and misses your companionship.

It does not matter who is at fault for the break up, how many mistakes were made by whom or anything else except the fact that your ex still loves you. It shows your ex really loves you and is missing your friendship and companionship. If the relationship was truly founded on love, then it has a good chance of being saved.

If your ex is on the rebound, he will gravitate toward someone with the opposite type of personality of yours. If you were the "good girl type," then your ex will go for the "bad girl" type. If you were the straight, well-educated type, your ex may go for the sit on the couch, drinking beer, watching football or bar hopping type. You know, your ex is trying to fix what went wrong with your relationship in the new rebound relationship.

This type of actions shows that your ex is still thinking of you and trying to out do the relationship that he had with you. This will give you time to improve yourself and show your ex that you can be flexible and change the problems that the two of you had that was founded in you.

Usually the rebound relationship will run its course, and then your ex will be missing all of the fun and good times that the two of you had together. The rebound partner will have flaws and the rebound relationship will soon lose its intrigue. Once the rebound person is gone, memories will set in and so will the passion to get you back. Sometimes it takes time and another relationship to find out that the grass is not greener on the other side of the fence.

Give your ex some time and let the rebound relationship run its course, then make sure to be there. When things go wrong, your ex will be looking for a familiar shoulder to lean on. Show your ex the new and improved you that he can always count on. Your ex will then be chasing you when he realizes the mistake that was made breaking up in the beginning.

Here are a few tips to follow if your ex is on the rebound:

- Do not try to convince your ex that you are the best person in the world to be involved with. Let it be your ex's idea and discovery.

- Do not be overly apologetic. It is okay to say that you are sorry for your mistakes in the past once, but after that move on. If your ex really loves you, he will be able to accept your first apology.

- Do not make promises you cannot keep. You are who you are and that is who your ex fell in love with. Improve, but do not try to do a complete overhaul on yourself. Do not promise that you will.

- Do not debate whose fault it was for the break up. You will just start an argument that you cannot win. It will always turn out to be a lose-lose situation.

- No begging, pleading or stalking your ex. It will not work, so do not do it.

If your ex gets involved in a rebound relationship soon after your break up, it just means that he still loves you and misses your companionship. Do not worry. You can get your ex back if you follow the tips given here. There are more steps to take to guarantee your success to get your ex back.

How to Get Your Man Back - Why Did He Break Up

In order to get your man back, you must first understand why he left to begin with. Sometimes the reason you are given is not the REAL reason for the break up. Break ups happen all the time. Look at the celebrities. They are on again, off again and are married a multitude of times. They have different types of pressures and opportunities that the average person does not have. So what causes an average Joe to break up with his long time partner?

If you discover the real reason your ex broke up, the more likely you are to fix the problem and get back together. If you really love your man, then you must do some soul searching to get down to the root cause of why he was not happy in the relationship.

Men are notorious for giving lame reasons for a break up. Maybe they do not want to hurt a woman's feelings or it could be their ego. A man has a hard time discussing the real reason; you know, the deep down issue that really caused him to want to "get out." He may have told you he was not happy, it is best for the two of you to date other people or he needed more space. There may have even been an affair involved. If there was an affair, the affair did not cause the break up. It was really caused by the core reason your man wanted to stray to begin with, which then led to the affair.

What a man really wants is respect, attention and admiration. Look how a relationship starts off. You call, email or text him all the time and you two go out as much as possible. You can hardly wait to see each other the next time. You dress up, your makeup is perfect, you smell wonderful and look hot. You giggle, have fun and give him the body language and looks that gets his pulse racing. He almost breaks into a sweat when he sees you walk into the room.

Next, you get together and reality sets in. You have landed your man and then his whole world changes. You run around in sweats with no makeup on shouting out commands for him to do. He feels cheated, and it seems to him that he is the victim of a bait and switch scam. He may say that you do not care or that you nag too much when the real reason for his unhappiness is the fact that he does not feel respected or admired. Call it ego or whatever you want to, but that is the way men are wired.

Once you understand why a man is driven to lose interest in a relationship, it is easier to be forewarned or to correct the core reason for him to break up. When asked, men that have had affairs said that it was not the sex that made them stray. It was the fact that the other woman showed him attention, made over him and made him feel wanted. Understanding this, if your man had an affair and broke up, the reason may have not been for sex with the other woman.

If you want your man back, dig deep and find the real reason that he broke up. Then make a plan to correct the issue and get him back. Learn to build a plan that cannot fail.

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