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Is high school love love?

In fact, it's hard, hard, hard, hard to find that pure, special feeling of love in college. understand oneself

By Deborah R ParkersonPublished 2 years ago 4 min read
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In one's life, the best love is this period. Shy, reserved, reserved, afraid of melting, afraid of disappearing.

There is no age group of love can be so beautiful and romantic. However, he must be regarded as the driving force of learning and progress. It is wonderful to have a good impression of each other, love each other, and then make progress together.

This must be divided. Some people have known each other since high school and ended up getting married, but most of them seem to talk about it separately. Love in high school is love, not love. A little bit, in this era when everyone wants to be supported by a rich woman, such deep and tender feelings are likely to be rare in high school. In junior high and high school, it's fine to say that you like it. If you say it's love, I will be a little bit, and I think it's ridiculous.

This is actually a question worth thinking about. First of all, since it has been defined as "high school love" and it is love, it must be the so-called "love". It is inevitable to think about many questions: meeting too early, will it go to the end? Will we be each other's most precious people? Are we meeting the most beautiful people at the best time? Is our current relationship "love"? Personally, I think that any encounter is fate. If you think it is, it is, and it will even develop according to the subconsciousness of our hearts. There are friends around me who liked them in junior high school, and they have gotten along with them until the university. There have also been a lot of things happened, who can tell whether it is love or not? So the most important thing is your attitude towards your feelings and your expectations. This kind of thing is like an iceberg. The external things are often a small part, and the really important and most instructive is the internal.

Why is high school love not love? At the most beautiful age, what worries me is learning. In addition to learning, isn't it a beautiful thing to have someone to look forward to? You can solve troublesome math problems together, and you can talk about your worries. Also because there is someone around us who can work hard together for the future that each other looks forward to. The love during this period is the best love in this life, there is no ignorance or ridiculous, and you don’t have to worry about the firewood, rice, oil and salt, just work hard and work hard in your studies.

1. Love has no age, but different concepts at different stages.

High school love is very simple, it is a simple two-way liking.

College love has certain requirements on material things.

Adult love is the simplest

2. Love is simple. What is complicated is the human mind.

Yes. But it is also the purest and most incompetent love. Of course, those heartless "loves" are nothing. —— Gu Li said that love without material is like a plate of loose sand, and it will be scattered without the wind blowing a few steps away. When you don't have the ability to give each other a home, how deeply you love can only stop there. Moreover, the high school and college entrance examinations largely determine each other's lives. At this time, the future is more important than ta. Don't say that you can't meet someone better than ta in the future. You can see more beautiful scenery when you stand at the highest point. Don't say that I worship money, reality, and material things. If you don't want to do this, then I sincerely hope that you can make yourself strong enough to live a carefree life, strong enough to keep yourself pure from the taint of the world forever. Maybe you in high school, the other party fought for you, scolded teachers desperately, contradicted your parents, and even self-mutilated and cut your wrists; at that time, you may have thought that you will be him in this life, but these are just childish behaviors of teenagers. Although the love that entered the marriage hall from high school exists, it is only a very small number. It is probably awe-inspiring how much tempering it has gone through. Besides, only they know what life will be like after marriage. Today's children, think about the opposite sex at your school or the school next door. There are a few who are willing to take the life and future of the two of you seriously. You must know that love is not just talking about it, eating, drinking and playing together, it is ok. If you really want to live a long time, you need to pay a lot for this, you need to settle down and support your family; maybe the firewood, rice, oil and salt at this time, as well as the trivialities of life, have already diluted the feelings... Maybe this time I recall high school You are a kind of pain and suffering, but also a responsibility and a joy.

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