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I Want To Apologize To My Ex Boyfriend (Should I Apologize To My Ex Years Later)

Are you in the tough spot where you're saying oh my gosh, I want to apologize to my ex boyfriend? When you are trying to apologize to an ex it is extremely important that you understand that a good apology can save a relationship just as easily as a badly timed or just plain bad apology can ruin a relationship. If you're asking the question should I apologize to my ex years later then you'll want to read every word of this article.

By Fatima MaciPublished about a year ago 4 min read
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Can you win back your ex by an apology?

The answer is yes and no. If you want to win back your ex, the first thing you need to do is to evaluate the situation if you should apologize.

If you were the one who was at fault and owe your ex an apology, please, tender your most sincere apology. If you think you've apologized before and it didn't work, well, you might have not done it right. Were you sincere when you said sorry to your ex? Or you were just saying it to stop the breakup and didn't really feel sorry? Trust me, sincere or not, your ex (especially you are a guy apologizing to your ex-boyfriend) can feel it. So, if you really want to win back your ex, give your ex a sincere apology. And it should be easier to do it now since the relationship has ended, your apology may be able to save it as its easier for them to believe that you really feel sorry this time.

On the other hand, if your ex was the one who's at fault and should apologize to you, should you ask him to apologize? Now, if your intention is to win back your ex, i advise you not to be demanding and try to justify why your ex should apologize to you. Instead, show your ex your kindness. Learn to forgive them. I know it's difficult, especially if your ex has cheated on you. But if you still love your ex and wanted to get back with your ex, you have to learn to forgive and forget. Otherwise, you need to think again if you want to get your ex back.

If you can't forgive and forget, but somehow you manage to get back with your ex, few months down the road, issues may prop up and you may have argument with him again. In that case, if you had not forgiven and forgotten your ex's wrongdoing in the past, do you think you can sustain the relationship? I'm sure you can easily guess that the answer is no. Not only that, you may also engage with hurtful and vicious arguments with your ex once again for the same old issue or mistake that he has made in the past. Now, that will not be healthy for the relationship and sooner or later, you two will suffer.

How to Convince Him to Give Me Another Chance? 7 Things You Must Do to Make This Happen Quickly

It's all very well having a change of heart and wanting another chance with your ex, but you have to admit that convincing your ex that you really need a another chance to prove yourself is quite another matter! If you are determined to get him back here are some lovely ways to make him give you a second chance!

Be genuine in your apology

You have made up your mind to apologize to him but what you should do is make sure he can sense your genuineness and honesty when you tell him that you are sorry. There are a million ways in which to apologize - the manner in which you do it can either touch his heart or make him disbelieve you.

Once you have stated your case - give him time

Once you have gathered up enough courage to apologize and let him know that you want another chance to prove that you love him, you have to step aside and give him the time he needs to decide whether he really wants you back in his life or not. Don't try to push him or force him to make a decision.

Concentrate on becoming his friend again

You might have to settle with just being a friend to him for some time. Don't try to elevate yourself to a "lover's position" too quickly. Concentrate on being there for him in the capacity of a good friend and he will begin to appreciate you and become attracted to you all over again.

Make him desire you again

Making him desire you again is one of the easiest ways to make him pursue you and give you another chance. There is no way he will be able to resists your charms and irresistible looks. Combine elegance and poise with sex appeal and honesty and you will have no trouble in hooking him!

Don't go back to your old ways

Whatever you do, remember that you are now a "new" creation and must walk, talk and behave in a manner that not only make s him curious but highly attracted to you. Don't revert to your old ways and do things that disappointed and irritated him.

Get him to come over to your place

It would be very easy for you to charm him and seduce him all over again if you can get him to come over and talk things over - for old time's sake! Make him agree to a cozy dinner for two and make sure that it is as romantic as ever! This might make him willing to give you another chance.

Get support from his friends and family

Be smart and stay in touch with his family and friends. Never lose touch with them and capture their hearts by being extra nice, considerate and sensitive to their feelings and needs without hurting them in any way. This will make you a top favorite and you will always have their support. He will slowly begin to realize that you are loved by one and all and will become more open to the idea of having you in his life again.

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