I Pushed My Boyfriend Away And He Broke Up With Me (I Pushed Him Away By Being Too Clingy)

Look I don't know what you did or what you said, but you screwed up didn't you? You screwed up big time, otherwise why would you be even reading this article. Lucky for you I have been through the wringer and tried and failed with many different ways to get my ex back. Also lucky for you I have tried and succeeded with many different ways to get my ex back. Here are just a few of them.

Apologize for what ever you did or said.

This one you would be surprised many have not done. There are many times that we have said or done something wrong that we forget to do the most basic thing. We are worried so much on taking back what we did that we don't even apologize. Own up to what you did or said and don't try to deny it or ignore it, this will only make your ex even more pissed at you.

Make sure to fix the problem that started it.

No matter what you did, if it was saying things you did not mean you need to take care of it so that it does not happen again. What does that mean? That means if you need to get some help with your problems then do so. This only benefits your relationship with your ex. You are making sure that you don't have the same problems as you did in the past and you are becoming a better person at the same time.

Stop saying you have changed, show it.

Believe me when I say that an ex hates it when you say you have changed. Lip service only goes so far and your ex will see that. Show them that you have changed, stop telling them that you have and they will take notice of it, believe me.

So you screwed up, we all do, of course you will need some help. You need to come up with a well thought out plan if you intend on having any sort of fighting chance to get your ex back. There is still hope for you, just don't make the same mistakes twice.

The 3 Biggest Secrets To Win Back Your Ex's Heart

Sometimes we can learn from Hollywood. In Hollywood a romance never works smoothly. Two people who are right for each other never just meet, fall in love and live happily ever after. That would be boring. To make a good movie there need to be complications. Sometimes those complications include a break-up. Life is like that too. Sometimes a relationship doesn't go right on the first attempt. There may not have been the right time. Careers may take you apart. Someone else may be involved. It doesn't really matter, the point is that sometimes you want to re-establish a relationship with your Ex, and the following are three of the secrets you should know in order to win back your ex.

Keep the lines of communication open.

If you cut each other off you need to re-open the communication lines as soon as possible. After a relationship ends there is often a period where interaction between you is chilly or non-existent. You need to get over that as quickly as possible and get back to the point where you can be completely comfortable in each other's company. The easiest way to do this is normally through mutual friends, and friends are always keen to help out in these situations. Once you get back to the point where you can communicate easily, the whole process becomes much easier.

The best thing you can do initially to get the talk flowing again is NOT talk about the past, your breakup, or anything serious which might put pressure on the situation. There will be a time when those things can be discussed, but first get comfortable with each other again.

Broach the Subject.

At some point, you will need to test the waters and see if there is a chance of winning back your ex. Light flirting will give help you receive signals from your ex. If he or she seems receptive, then give it a shot.

This is really scary, but you need to know if you are wasting your time. The world is full of ex-couples who spend a lot of time in each other's company, both wanting to get back together but still apart. Why? Because no-one is prepared to take the plunge and ask if there's a chance things could work again. "Friends" managed to spin the storyline out for 10 years! Are you prepared to wait around for 10 years not knowing whether your ex is still interested in you or not?

It's also important to realize that your partner is not likely to say "oh thank goodness" and fall back into your arms the first time you broach the subject. It could happen, but you are more likely to get either a "not a chance" response, or a non-committal response. Either is fine. If there is no chance, then you have saved yourself a lot of chasing someone who is never going to be interested again. If they respond they are uncertain - then there is hope!

SHOW, Don't Tell,

One of the classic mistakes is to repeatedly tell your ex how you will be better in the future. It's a mistake because it appears desperate, which is a turn-off. Instead of talking about what you will do, just start doing it. For example, if your ex wanted you to be more open, be open and caring in your actions. Give a gift, extend an olive branch. In other words, show action, not words.

Last time you were together, something went wrong. You shouldn't try to brush that under the carpet. Actually acknowledge it, address it and show how you will make it better. When problems of the past arise again, handle it in a new way. For example, if you had a habit of overreacting in the past, then when something troublesome happens, try to shrug it off. You want your ex to notice your changes. But they must be sincere and genuine. If it is just a show to get your ex back, it will be transparent to your ex and you will do more damage than good.

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