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My Ex Stopped Talking To Me All Of A Sudden (Ex Stopped Talking To Me Out Of Nowhere)

Are you in a position where you're worried because the thought my ex stopped talking to me all of a sudden is always prevalent in your mind? Getting your ex to talk to you again is not a hopeless case. It may be the easiest thing to do if you think about it. This happens a lot and frankly there's usually one main reason that causes you to be in a position where you're saying my ex stopped talking to me out of nowhere.

By Jasmine NoralPublished 2 years ago 5 min read
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My Ex Stopped Talking To Me All Of A Sudden (Ex Stopped Talking To Me Out Of Nowhere)
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It's hard to have your ex ignore you. It's even worse if it's entirely your fault. Let's say your ex was talking to you after the breakup, but then they started ignoring you....but why?

Read on to find out the one reason why your ex ignores you...

You are NOT you...

You are not your best self, and you are not even the person they fell in love with. Your ex has broken up with you, and suddenly you are chasing them around like crazy and your character has completely changed.

You cry a lot and plead with them to reconsider. You call them like crazy hoping they will pick up and talk. You argue the reason behind the breakup, and argue with them even more to make them reconsider.

You then start to fall into a deep depression and feel sad all the time, and it shows up in your attitude, tone, and actions. Because you are so depressed, you find it difficult to change, and you end up developing even worse habits than you had before.

Not only this, but you let yourself go and just quit caring about things, all the while begging and pleading your ex even more to take you back.

But is this really you? Is this the best you can be? Is this the person your ex fell in love with? Is this the person your ex deserves?

The answer is NO.

The reason why your ex ignores you

That is the sole reason why your ex ignores you. They ignore you because you are a drag and you have allowed yourself to become so desperate that you have become scary. You may have even threatened or stalked your ex, become ragingly needy and desperate and none of these things are healthy nor are they desirable by anyone.

You probably didn't realize it, because you were on such a hard emotional rollercoaster, and you just wanted your ex back so bad that you freaked out and couldn't handle it. BUT, that is NO excuse, and you have inadvertently caused your ex to ignore you.

Get rid of the issue and your ex will talk to you again

So obviously you still want your ex back, and all you have to do is stop being so desperate. Calm down, improve, and look on the bright side. Work on being your best self and being the kind of person your ex was originally attracted to.

This in turn will make your ex talk to you again. This also means you have to stop excessively contacting your ex for now, so that your ex can become curious to talk to you and be with you again. And, once they speak with you again, you can show them all the great changes you have made and show them the improvements.

3 Ways To Get Your Ex To Talk To You

When a relationship breaks up it is very common for one of the partners to realize that the feelings they had were much deeper than they realized and that they would be prepared to do just about anything to get back together again.

This can of course be difficult if certain things were said during the breakup or if the relationship ended badly. It's quite possible your ex will have cut off all communication with you and stopped going to the places you both frequented, just to avoid you. If they don't want anything to do with you it's very difficult to get communication going again, and you may even have to allow them their cooling off period to show that you respect their wishes for time apart.

But after you have given them a little space, you need to be able to let them know that you still care deeply for them and want to give things another go. How you go about getting them from not talking to you, to establishing communication is a delicate matter.

The simplest way is to simply call and ask them if there's a time you can catch up. If they are not talking to you at all you can expect a pretty chilly response to that. So bear that in mind, and be prepared to approach them with a peace offering. You could start by saying you have a few things you feel you need to apologize for and ask if they would mind meeting for lunch.

If the direct approach fails you can employ a go-between. Be careful with this, because it can totally suck when you are caught between two ex-friends. You need to find a friend that both you and your partner trust, and you need to tell them how much you would like to get back together and how sincere you are. Ask them if they would mind having a quiet chat with your ex and seeing if there is any way you can make up your former mistakes. And leave it at that. Don't bug your friend, don't expect a call the next day and don't be offended if they say they don't want to get involved (in fact, you should make sure they understand they are under no obligation to get involved - you are asking a big favor here). You need to be completely honest about the fact your goal is to get back together. Don't try and play it cool - the time for that is passed.

If that fails, write your thoughts down in a letter. Stay sincere and don't let your letter get long winded. When it is done let it sit for 24 hours then read over it again and make sure it says exactly what you want it to. The thing with a letter is making sure it gets to the right person and gets opened. Hand deliver it, acknowledge any mistakes you may have made and any hurt you may have caused. Apologize and ask them to read the letter and let you know if there's any way you can make it up to them.

When you are trying to re-establish contact with someone where a relationship has ended badly you have to be sincere and open yourself up for a rejection. Don't constantly pester them, but rather give them some space and let them know you will be ready for them whenever they are prepared to give things another shot.

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