Humans logo

I Love Yourself: The Power of Loving Yourself

How Embracing Your True Self Can Help You and Those Around You

By mohammed iguelimPublished about a year ago 4 min read
I Love Yourself: The Power of Loving Yourself
Photo by Annie Spratt on Unsplash

A young lady called Maya used to reside in a tiny community hidden away in a verdant green region. Maya was compassionate, giving, and attractive, but she frequently battled self-doubt and poor self-esteem. She discovered that she was continually comparing herself to others and feeling inadequate.

One day as she was strolling through the village market, a new seller caught her eye. He was selling handcrafted notebooks with elaborate covers. One in particular caught her attention because it read across the front in large characters, "I love myself."

Maya considered whether it was foolish to purchase a notebook with such a corny saying on it for a brief period of time. She bought the notebook and started writing in it every day after she reasoned, "Why not? Maybe writing down positive affirmations will help me feel better about myself."

Maya initially found it difficult to list her own strengths. It was challenging to change her mentality because she had always been so fixated on her shortcomings. But as she consistently penned in her diary, she eventually started to view herself differently. She talked in her writing about her generous nature, contagious giggle, and special abilities.

Maya observed that her relationships with other people started to alter as her self-love increased. She noticed that she was drawing more uplifting individuals into her life because she was more self-assured and outspoken. She once started up a discussion with Rohit at the market, and they got along right away.

Maya and Rohit spent a lot of time together over the coming weeks getting to know one another while touring the town. Maya experienced a level of joy and contentment unlike anything she had ever known. Maya started to fear that she wasn't good enough for Rohit as the weeks changed into months. She began to judge herself against other ladies and felt inadequate.

Maya confessed in Rohit about her self-doubt one day as they were seated in the village center. She said, tears running down her cheeks, "I just don't understand why you would want to be with someone like me."

While holding Maya's hand, Rohit gave her a heartfelt gaze. He said, "Maya, I love you just the way you are." "You are perfect just the way you are, flaws and all; you don't need to be anyone else or compare yourself to anyone else."

Maya was shocked by Rohit's remarks. Before, she had never heard anyone address her in such a way. But as she continued to stare into his eyes, she understood he was being sincere. Maya experienced genuine affection for the first time in her life, not for the person she believed she should be, but for the person she was.

Maya made a deliberate decision to start loving herself the same way Rohit did from that point forward. Every day, she continued to write in her diary, emphasizing her positive traits rather than her faults. She also made it an effort to surround herself with upbeat individuals who supported her in being the best version of herself.

Maya became more and more aware that learning to appreciate oneself was a continuous endeavor. There would be days when she felt depressed and disheartened, but she was aware that she had the resources to bounce back. She also understood that Rohit was her companion and that he would be by her side no matter what.

After some time, Maya and Rohit got married and had a family. Maya kept on writing in her diary as she taught her kids the value of loving themselves. She was constantly reminded of her path and who she had become every time she glanced at the notebook with the lines "I love myself" on the cover.

One day, Maya noticed a young lady who appeared lost and desolate while she was strolling through the hamlet. The lady was crying, and Maya could see the anguish and insecurity written all over her face. She was confronted by Maya, who inquired as to her well-being.

Before eventually speaking, the lady paused for a brief period of time. She said, "I just feel so lost and alone." "I feel like I'm not good enough. I don't know who I am or what I'm supposed to do with my life."

Maya was fully aware of the woman's emotions. She had previously visited that location many years prior. She then guided the lady to a seat nearby after taking her by the hand. She took out her notebook and flipped open a page to some of her best mantras.

Replicate what I said, Maya said. The lady paused a moment before chiming in, her voice subdued at first, but getting louder with each repeat, "I am enough. I am loved. I can accomplish my dreams."

Maya kept reassuring the lady that she didn't have to be anyone else or hold herself in comparison to anyone else. She encouraged her to do as Maya had done years earlier and concentrate on what she liked about herself.

Maya experienced happiness and contentment as the lady started to open up and share her own thoughts and emotions. She understood that she had completed her self-love path and was now in a position to share the knowledge she had attained with others.

In the end, Maya understood that self-love went beyond simply feeling positive about oneself. It was also about being able to support people who were going through similar difficulties as she had. And she understood that to be the genuine glory of self-love.

Maya grinned to herself as she made her way home, feeling appreciative of all the teachings she had picked up over the years. Although she was aware that the path to self-love was never truly complete, she was also confident that she had the resources and support she would need to overcome any obstacles.

She then penned one final statement in her notebook as she opened it once more: "I love myself, and I always will."

love

About the Creator

mohammed iguelim

Iguelim is a talented young writer who was born on 2001 in Morocco. From a very young age, Iguelim had a passion for storytelling and creative writing, which continued to grow throughout their childhood and teenage years.

Enjoyed the story?
Support the Creator.

Subscribe for free to receive all their stories in your feed. You could also pledge your support or give them a one-off tip, letting them know you appreciate their work.

Subscribe For Free

Reader insights

Be the first to share your insights about this piece.

How does it work?

Add your insights

Comments

There are no comments for this story

Be the first to respond and start the conversation.

    mohammed iguelimWritten by mohammed iguelim

    Find us on social media

    Miscellaneous links

    • Explore
    • Contact
    • Privacy Policy
    • Terms of Use
    • Support

    © 2024 Creatd, Inc. All Rights Reserved.