I LOVE YOU

Falling in love is often a very scary thing. We fear falling in love and being in love all alone and as careful as many try to be, this still happens to so many wonderful people. The term "Falling in love" symbolizes a place of NO control over what happens next. This is why the person in the relationship with the least interest in it has all the control. It doesn't matter to them rather you stay or leave. But when a person really falls in love, being without the one they love is NEVER an option. This is often understood as a weakness but I beg to differ. LOVE is a very powerful thing and even though it may not always be returned to you the way you gave it or the way you want it, it is still a blessing to be able to love. Not everybody can. Love comes with a built-in healing agent for when we become broken and even though you felt like you would die, you lived...Not only did you live, but you are better than you ever been. In some countries when a cup or plate is broken instead of putting it back together with glue, they use GOLD. The gold shows every place the cup or plate was broken in but it also shows the new value you of it at the same time. The GOLD used to put it back together not only made it a cup or plate again, IT MADE IT MORE VALUABLE than it was before it was broken.

Most people fear being in love and do their very best to avoid it at all cost. If they find themselves in a relationship that seems to be getting to serious they abort ASAP. The "I'm Out Of Control" feeling of being in love scares a lot of people but truth is, it's better to have had love if only for a moment than to have never had love. Someone asked the question one day, "How would the light get in if we were never broken?"

We often find ourselves hurt when loving rather it's a Mom, Dad, Brother, Sister or Grandparent. So by the time we get to a regular relationship we have a fear of letting go and letting love. But it's the hurt that grows us and helps us to find our true identity. Yes, It's scary I must agree but it often proves worth it all. It is the hurt that teaches us more about what we want and what we don't want.

A "BROKEN HEART" often fix "BROKEN EYES" and helps us achieve 2020 mental and emotional vision. I hear people say all the time when they see someone they use to be with, "what was I thinking?" "What did I ever see in them?" some just stand with their mouth open in disbelief as the person walks by. A little growth cleared their vision enough to now understand why the relationship didn't work and would never had worked no matter how bad they wanted that person. Some times you can want a person so bad you develop a Stevie Wonder complex and a Ray Charles Syndrome and completely lose your way to happiness.

OPEN YOUR EYES and look for those old signs of Honor and deep felt Respect that True Love never travels without. Real love lifts you, not press you down, It brings Joy, not take it away, It heals, not cause wombs. Have you been chasing the wrong thing all this time? Have you been chasing the complete opposite of what you want?

Well, whatever the case, It's your time to be happy and to enjoy life. So put your smile on, open your eyes and pay attention and you will see the difference you have been waiting for.

Finding love is like picking the right watermelon. If you don't know what to look for they all look alike. Once you get home with it and it's not good you find yourself wondering which of the watermelons you saw would have been the best one. Okay, okay, okay, I know your heart is way more important than a watermelon but the importance of the signs are the same.