How To Make Your Ex Chase You (How To Get My Ex To Chase Me Again)

Hey, do you want to know how to make your ex chase you, even if it seems impossible at first? I know, I know, you're probably shaking your head because 'conventional wisdom' says that when you break up... you just don't make up, right?

And I know you're going through such a tough time now that it's pretty hard to even think clearly.

But look, let me ask you: "Do you know someone who broke up and then got back together?" You probably do... even if it's just a celebrity couple. I certainly know couples who broke up, got back together, and are still together... years later. In fact, their relationships seem better than ever.

Now, I'm not going to insult your intelligence... you already know that not everyone who breaks up, gets back together. Of course not, but you're reading this because you want to know how to get your ex to want you back - you suspect it's possible... and more importantly you suspect that it's possible for you.

Believe it or not, that's one of the keys to getting your ex back!

See, if you didn't believe it was possible, then you'd never even try... and if you don't try, then the chances of you getting back together are pretty slim. That's part of the reason why a lot of people who break up, stay broken up... they think the break-up is final when it really doesn't have to be.

So, how to get your ex to want you back? Well, even though you can't change what's already happened, you still get to choose how you think about the situation. Listen, this is probably going to sound crazy... but all the couples I've known who got back together after a break-up... all said the strangest thing...

They all said: "The break-up was actually good for the relationship!"

Wow, talk about an eye-opener! But it makes sense, you know? In all those cases, the break-up was more like the warning-light before the car ran out of gas... and they were able to fill it up before it ran out completely.

Which brings me to the second key on how to get your ex to want you back...

You've got to do the right things, and not do the wrong things. Obvious huh? But most people have no idea what to do in a break-up... it's like the car is running out of gas but it seems like the best thing to do is change the tire...

In a break-up, what your heart is telling you to do can actually make things worse, and it's not your fault - you're doing the best you can - but your emotions can make it hard to see things clearly.

"But", you say "how do I know what's right?!" Good question! Every relationship is unique, but human psychology is very similar when it comes to things like love, loss... and yep, breaking up and making up.

In other words, there's a lot you can do to get your ex to see you in a new positive light... and if you play your cards right and do the things which bring them closer to you, then that's exactly how to get your ex to want you back. Does it always work? No, of course not, but it's worked for a lot of couples, so isn't it worth your best shot?

Steps To Get Your Ex To Chase You Instead Of Pushing You Away

Right now, your ex might be pushing you away and that could be metaphorically like not taking your calls of literally like trying to get you to shove you off a large cliff. It's probably a healthier option to get them to chase you instead so remember our input when climbing that mountain.

Step 1: Chase Them: If you want to get your ex to chase you, perhaps it's good to give them a hint that you're still into them. They might think that you've moved on so let them know you still care in a subtle and non-creepy way.

Step 2: Don't Hover: Telling your ex that you still think of them is one thing but professing your love on a daily basis and saying that you can't go on without them will paint you with a dark brush. Don't even talk to your ex every day for the best results.

Step 3: Walking Away: Walking away gives them a chance to actually chase after you. If you're always around they'll never have to come after you and when you ignore them a little bit it tells them they better act quick or you'll exit stage left.

Step 4: Have Something They Want: Pretend your ex is a cat. Are they more likely to come running towards you if you're holding a box of envelopes or a can of tuna? Likewise, you'll want to have something your ex wants to get them to run after you whether that be your humor, good job ($), sculpted body, or endearing personality.

Step 5: Space = Chase: We can't stress enough just how important giving your ex space is if you want them to come back to you. Give them room and time to clear their head and think about what they want to do next. After all, you truly don't want them back until they're 100% committed, or 85% at the least.

Step 6: Be Peaceful: If every time your ex calls you it ends up with a fight about who they've been hanging out with and you going to the cell phone store because you threw yours against a brick wall, they'll just stop calling. Instead, be welcoming because their calls are a way to reach out to you.

Step 7: Eh, Whatever: It sounds weird but your ex will be more into you the less you're into them. You've still got to show something towards them but put up a front that you don't care either way if they move into a new apartment or start dating somebody...even if it truly kills you, don't tip your hand.

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