How to identify

-01-A man of bad character will let a woman fall into the abyss of pain without knowing it, so women must keep their eyes open and never fall into the web of love he has woven.

Because, in the eyes of such men, feelings are just tools he can use, he will do anything to get something of value from a woman.

The language is their weapon to gain the woman's love, weaving an illusory future, is his means to make the woman willing, good for women, and is their shield to hide their purpose.

I believe that every woman, has a lot of fantasies about love, hope that there is a person who truly loves her, treats her as good as ever, and can walk hand in hand with her for life.

As the saying goes, "I wish to have a heart, white head not to leave each other", this is probably the kind of feelings that all women aspire to, but not every man can give women this kind of good.

If you encounter a man of bad character, once you and his deep friendship, you will be caught in a "disaster".

-02-

Y Y is a woman who is very eager to love, she has not been in love for work, looking around her friends are in love with someone, and she wants more to a marriage of love.

So she no longer refused the blind dates introduced to her by friends and relatives, wanting to find a love of their own from this.

Wang Ming is the third man she was introduced to by relatives, and the first two rejected her because they were too career-oriented.

She was worried that Wang Ming would also turn her down because she was busy at work, but she found that Wang Ming was particularly appreciative of her and kept asking her what she did for work and what her position was, and kept praising her as a strong and admirable woman.

She was happy that someone would appreciate her so much, so she often contacted Wang Ming, and gradually she realized that Wang Ming was not worthy of a deep friendship.

Wang Ming didn't have a regular job, but in front of her, he would always talk about how his friends were unmotivated, unlike him who worked hard all the time to make a living and held several jobs.

Many times Wang Ming was a spendthrift who would constantly show off what he had bought and how colorful his life was in his circle of friends.

However, the moment Y Y gives him a like, he will ask Y Y to borrow money, each time the amount borrowed is not much, sometimes the next day will be returned to Y Y, but Wang Ming next time to borrow money, always more than the last borrowed some.

The most unbearable thing for Y Y is that once in a while when the two of them went to dinner together, Wang Ming kept invading her intimate distance at the table on the pretext of showing her something interesting. The two of them were in the same room, and the two of them were in the same room.

That day, Y Y finally left without even eating, and after that Wang Ming also said loudly on We Chat: "Women come out to eat with men at night, not to sleep, what are you pretending to pretend."

Seeing this sentence, Y Y immediately pulled black Wang Ming.

-03-

Men with bad character are like this, either they do not respect women or they find it profitable for women.

Therefore, women in interpersonal communication or love, encounter the following three "habitual actions" of men and must be away from:

Like to belittle others to elevate themselves

This kind of man shows how great they are, in front of you to belittle others to elevate themselves, there is no doubt that this person's character is really bad.

The good character of the man, to get a woman's favor, or to get a woman's good feeling, he must be through their excellent quality and own charm to impress women, will not pull than their own worse than the people up to highlight his excellent.

He said friends or colleagues, are particularly poor, you must stay away from him, because "things gather by class, people by the group", he is surrounded by people are very poor, then this man can be good to where?

If he said only the words, then you should stay away from him, today he will degrade others for you, and tomorrow he will also degrade you in front of other women.

Often ask you to borrow money

At this point, time and around a lot of male friends talked, and they all said that it is impossible to ask around women to borrow money, which is their self-respect as a man.

Of course, there are also forced to have no choice but to ask to borrow money, these are understandable, and they will be in the emergency past, immediately after the money is back.

If around you, there is a kind of often ask you to borrow money, and each time will be more than the last amount of men, it must be a man of poor character.

In his eyes, you can use the "golden master", he increased the number, again and again, testing your bottom line.

This kind of, men even if you and he do friends will drag you down, not to mention you and him are in a relationship.

To you move your hands and feet

Women should understand that the man who will move his hands and feet to you, is very classless, he is complete and utter and will not respect the woman's scum.

In the eyes of this man of poor character, love is a pretense to take advantage of women's good, they will treat women as a kind of plaything, not a lover who can go hand in hand.

With this kind of man, you even for his hands and feet feel uncomfortable, will not stop, even if you loudly stop, he will also look indifferent to say: "Just kidding." Then seize the opportunity he will still move your hands and feet, so this man must be away.

-04-

With people, never look at each other's character, with good character people, your heart will be cherished, and you pay in return.

And how a person's character, from his habitual actions, can be seen, after all, "see the smallest to know", the man is smart, good acting skills, the real character will also be in some of his habits show.

Remind women, do not have a glimmer of hope for this poor character of the man, he is not for you to change his "habitual action", or even, he will be because of your good feelings, and intensify, so you eat all the pain.

The good character of the man, he may not say nice words, will not accompany you to do romantic things, but he will certainly respect you, you do not like the things he will not do, such talent is worth you to deep friendship.