To love or not to love

In everyone's relationship resume.

Some people show up just to teach you a lesson so they can tell you that you are good at cheating. He may be around three or five women at the same time, having a good time.

And you foolishly think that you have met the love of your life, and have even fantasized more than once about your appearance in a wedding dress.

My reader left a comment in the background saying.

"Although I know he cheated on me, I really can't hate it, the memories are all good for him, I just wonder how he can date several women at the same time, all the time without being discovered.

I am very sensitive, I have long felt that there is something wrong, but there has been no evidence, those days are haunted, suddenly found his arms around another woman in my bed, covering my quilt, wearing the dress I bought, you say I am disgusted?

I can not understand, and can not forgive, any reason is not an excuse for betrayal, he has been lying to me that he is divorced, but the reality is not.

Today, everything is light, the heart is like dead water ......"

We had been outspoken in the trolling conference, who has not experienced a few scums, girls who have not experienced scum, you can not do real growth and maturity.

Every person in your life is indeed meaningful, the right person to give you joy, the wrong person to give you sadness.

It is these different emotional experiences that have shaped the candid and self-assured you that you are now. In intimate relationships, instead of struggling to love or not, ask your heart.

Many times.

The "heart" will tell you the answer to whether you love it or not.

A person who loves you, and gives you a feeling of abundance and peace. Feelings, women's sixth sense is often accurate when you begin to suspect that a person is not so sincere to you.

That is enough to prove that he is a problem, as to where the problem is, just a matter of time, take you as a spare man, to give you care and concern is only a handful.

He does not have so much time and energy to use on you, more often than not to give you the feeling is very busy, but together, and very intense and hot.

Unfortunately, after the separation, as if they had not known each other, rarely take the initiative to find you, you look for him, but also mostly not salty.

Will not show a special surprise, occasionally or impatient or even perfunctory. Such a person will make you feel uneasy and anxious.

You will wonder without thinking, what is he busy with? Even if you are busy again, send a message, report a safe time should always have it, do not know, do not love you, people, no matter how late, you can not wait for his "good night".

On the contrary, people who love you, and bring you stability and peace of mind, will take the initiative to report, inform the whereabouts, be afraid to worry about you, afraid to upset you.

He will see you as a barometer, but where you need, he will be in, and always in.

Very few girls experience the wrong love before it dawns on them that, as it turns out, he just doesn't love me. The fact is that you will be able to get a lot more than just a couple of days to get a lot more than just a couple of days.

He just doesn't want to do this for me, that's all.

If a person does not love you, only then will you spend, seeing a loved one. From my ex, I saw a man who didn't love you, he didn't have a heart.

The heart is cold, can be disguised, want to get you, you are his mouth baby, there is another toy appeared, you can rub salt in your wounds.

His heartlessness hurt me too deeply.

I always used to think that he made excuses, he was really busy, no matter what I die to admit that he just did not like me that much.

Until I found out he was in love with someone else, I realized that letting you live like a child is someone who loves you.

The one who treats you as a mother is the one who does not love you.

If a person loves you enough, there will be no third person whatsoever, only not enough love, others will take advantage of the situation. The book "The Psychology of Love", mentioned a point of view, true love is linked to loyalty.

In other words, when a man loves a woman, he will restrain his inner desires and abandon his inner distractions, and will give up the whole forest because of a tree.

This is his weighing the pros and cons of the heart to keep each other, he may be moved to another woman, but this does not mean that he will betray.

He will have a fierce thought struggle, but in the end will be because of you, and resist the temptation. In "Meet Happiness", Geo Jingle's Loyang An An is such an existence.

In the face of the young and beautiful female subordinate's initiative to flirt, he hesitated, wandered, struggled, and later, choose a bad wife.

In his heart, his fat daughter-in-law is the only woman he needs to be responsible for in this life.

From this point of view, the man who loves you, and gives you a sense of security will be far greater than the jitters.

A wise man confessed that

True love is not easy, it is six people getting along, one is the real you, one is the real him, one is him in your heart, one is you in his heart, one is the self in his heart, one is the self in your heart, let these six people perfect unity, to have how much tacit understanding.

Yes, a person who has experienced deep love, will know how not to love, when a person is in love, love and not love, "heart" has long had the answer.

Many people are obsessed, not without awareness, but just afraid of losing it.

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