Gestures of Love Ukrainian Ladies Appreciate
Don’t you love being coddled by the person most dear to you?
Don’t you love being coddled by the person most dear to you? You feel comfort in their presence and you feel like nothing else can beat this moment of bliss.
You’re more likely to be attracted to someone who makes the effort to show you how much they love you in their own little ways. And when it comes to Ukrainian women, this can never be more true.
These ladies are beautiful, and they know it. The only issue is, they find it hard to find someone who can truly love them for who they are. Other people don’t see them beyond their beauty and are quick to judge them.
So if you plan on courting a lady in Ukraine, you best prepare yourself with the lowdown on how to woo them the right way.
Without further ado, here are a few gestures of love that Ukrainian women appreciate.
Reaching for the bill
You may encounter a few instances where the Ukrainian lady offers to pay half the bill, but they’re only doing it out of propriety. When it comes to paying for dates, a man is expected to fully pursue, court and pay for the Ukrainian.
Taking up on her offer to pay is most likely to decrease her interest in you. She will get the impression that you might not be able to be on the same wavelength as her when it comes to gender roles.
Taking the lead
These ladies want a man that they can see eye to eye with when making decisions. And if you show signs of compatibility as a couple? You best bet that she’s not going to let you slip out of her grasp that easily.
In their eyes, you have to be gallant and gentlemanly before they can come around and start accepting your advances. Ukrainians are a lot more open nowadays with the idea of breaking gender roles, but there are still some that prefer going the traditional way.
So make sure you stay aware of your actions — you might be a lot more used to the Western way of life. And if caught unaware, you might give your date the wrong signals.
Giving her gifts, no matter how big or small
Flowers are nice and all, but let’s admit it — giving it way too often can make it lose its special meaning. You have to save these special flowers for the most special of occasions.
Besides, you have a lot of other options to choose from. Ukrainians aren’t picky with the gifts they receive, but it helps to be a lot more creative without them. It doesn’t have to be fancy or pricey. In fact, Ukrainian ladies would love it if you give them something practical and useful.
Whether it’s a watch, lotion, or even a powerbank, she’ll gladly accept it. You can even write her a romantic letter, or start an arts and crafts project. It doesn’t matter if it’s store bought or hand made, it’s always the thought that counts.
A gift you would like to avoid giving early on the relationship is an expensive bag or perfume. Two reasons for this: you wouldn’t want to pressure her into getting into a relationship with you by giving something expensive, and you wouldn’t want to attract materialistic women.
It’s fine if you’re steady enough. If you manage to make it that far, you know for sure that she isn’t with you for the money.
Consistently act like a gentlemen
Ukrainian women adore guys who put them first and help them in every way they can. These are useful traits to have in long-term relationships, after all.
You have to treat these ladies with utmost care and respect. According to Ukrainian culture, men are not supposed to shake hands with women on the first meeting. When meeting new female acquaintances, it is recommended to give them a kiss or not to make any physical contact at all.
One of the many ways you can show her you are as gallant as a gentleman is by opening doors for her, making sure she’s seated properly and comfortably, removing her coat in restaurants, and helping her carry things. Always take the initiative to ask
Ask her how her day went
“How’s your day going?”
Asking this question to a Ukrainian girl is a great way to show that you care.
Remember that it's the little things that reveal a lot about someone no matter how seemingly insignificant they may seem. Talking about how her day went can give you more ideas on how to make it better for her next time.
Remember the things she likes
When was the last time someone remembered some small detail about you? How did that make you feel?
This is a surefire way of making a Ukrainian women feel loved. Remembering things like their favorite ice cream flavor or the artists they’ve been listening to gives them the assurance that you’ve been paying close attention to your conversations.
This means a lot to them, since it’s something they’d least expect a man to do.
Attracting the right woman in Ukraine
Much like dating in any other parts of the world, dating Ukrainian ladies is either a hit or miss. It all depends on your luck and how you deal with a situation.
What’s more, you have to be able to read them well if you want to know whether they are genuinely interested or not. When something doesn't work out, they may show up late or cancel at the last minute. You might be scratching your head wondering what exactly went wrong.
If you’re not decisive enough, you might get strung along by women who are only in it for the money. To avoid attracting them, you have to be firm yet considerate. You might get rejected in the process, but at least you’re keeping yourself away from harm.
Besides, there are plenty of quality women who’re just dying to go out with you and have a great time.
About the Creator
Vera Tischenko
Dating Coach and Professional Matchmaker for Kiev Women
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