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Ex Keeps Coming To My House (My Ex Keeps Popping Up At My House)

Are you scratching your head in wonderment, saying my ex keeps coming to my house? Just because your relationship is over does not mean your ex no longer cares. Believe it or not, they may still love you deeply. If you're in a situation where you're saying my ex keeps popping up at my house, then you'll want to read every word of this article.

By David HudsonPublished about a year ago 5 min read
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Does your ex still love you isn't always an easy question to answer. One of the problems with a break up with someone you love is you want to desperately believe that there's still a chance that you two will get back together. It's very easy to fall into a trap where you start seeing signs that they still love you, even when those signs aren't really there. If you want to determine whether your ex still does have some strong feelings for you, these signs typically indicate that they do.

They love to go over to your house: If your ex seems to be always around your house for no reason at all, it is a clear indication that they still care. Despite the fact that you have already parted ways, it seems like they are still holding on by making sure that they are still visible in your life. This may also be their way of coping for missing you.

They look into your eyes...As if they want to say something: Nothing says "I love you" better than a loving gaze into the person's eyes. If your ex is opening the windows of their soul to you - that's their eyes, by the way - they are silently trying to tell you how they feel.

When an ex is not ashamed to gaze at you or look you straight in the eye it's probably because they want you to read their mind and see the love they still feel for you. If they can't meet your gaze they might just be looking to see what you are up to.

They ask your friends about you...They want an update on your personal life: During your time together, you probably made some common friends. These friends will be one of the best sources of information they will seek out to hear about what you are up to. If they are calling your friends to know what's going on in your life, they still care.

It's normal for an ex that still loves you to want to know what you are doing. They will be anxious to find out if you are dating or if you are depressed or relieved by the break-up.

They send you gifts or cards...How obvious can this be: If you show up at work every morning and find a beautiful bouquet of roses on your desk, that's just obvious. They are still crazy for you. However, if they are not so romantic, maybe you will get a muffin or a bagel on your desk.

Your ex might bring you that double latte from Starbuck's that you are addicted to, or they might just drop you an e-card once in a while to wish you a nice day. All of these gestures point to an ex who still loves you and wants to remain a part of your life.

They stay in touch...Actions speak louder than words: Maybe it's a late night phone call just to wish you good night and sweet dreams. Maybe it's a midday call to ask you out for lunch. Whatever it is, your ex is still in touch with you for one reason: they still like you and definitely enjoy your company.

Get Your Ex Back - A Plan Of Attack To Re-Ignite The Fires

Does a recent breakup have you wanting to get your ex back? The reasons behind the breakup probably seem silly now, but the effects have you and your ex separated. The last thing you ever wanted to happen was this! If you truly love them and want to learn about what you can do to get them back, continue reading.

I bet you are a bag full of emotions right now. On one hand you are mad at your ex, on the other hand, you are worried you will never get your ex back. Considering that you are feeling all these conflicting emotions, it goes without saying that your ex probably is dealing with the same issues, and that is a good thing. This means they are still in the game and probably miss you just as much.

With so much going on in your head (and theirs), it is not a good idea to try to resolve anything right away. This will probably require some time apart. Before you panic, be assured that taking some time apart is the right choice. Neither you or your ex are really able to think rationally right now. You are more concerned about your own issues, and not those of the relationship. Rushing through the healing process will only lead to further hurt and permanent scars later on.

This healing time, apart from each other, is best spent in a positive mood. If you continue to be upset about what has happened, and dwell on the past which cannot be changed, there will be little chance to get your ex back. However, if your ex sees that you are doing well and appear happy and in good spirits, they soon will realize that you can make in on your own. As well, they will wonder what fun you are having without them; making them want you back even more.

Finding things in your life that make you happy is your objective. Going out with your friends, taking a trip to your favorite spot, shopping for a special gift for yourself, or just getting into a new hobby or sport are a few mood-altering suggestions. The trick is to keep yourself upbeat. Not only will it have your ex wanting you back, it will do wonders for your health!

You probably are going to be itching to contact your ex. If you want to get your ex back, you have to avoid contact. If the healing time is to be successful, along with time apart, you just have to leave them alone as far as contact goes. With heightened emotions, it is too easy to read things into what the other person is trying to say, and usually the messages conveyed are confused. I know that it is very easy to just pick up your cell phone and text them, but you have to avoid that urge. Wait for them to contact you first, that way you know they are ready to communicate.

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