Between men and women

Forget in which article to see such a sentence, the so-called "true love" is not just a simple feeling, but also a selfless dedication to giving, a kind of unrequited return to give, after all, love is this, when a person like another person, is willing to put all of their own all the experience and story through all The fact is that the actual person is willing to share all of his or her experiences and stories with this person, and also hate to give all of the things he or she has to this person, and share with this person, and to this person is not asking for anything in return, it is never any consideration to speak of.

The real meaning of love is so sincere and deep and resolute, after all, to be honest, if the two of you are together, full of calculations and intrigue, and hiding a lot of heart and mind, it is not any sincere love, but completely false love, some are perfunctory, some are sloppy to cope, or a kind of settlement, a kind of patchwork. It can even be said to be a kind of heartless, a kind of irresponsible casual play mentality.

As Zhang Oxonian said in "the most beautiful time you met who": in the right time, meeting the right person, is a kind of happiness; in the right time, meeting the wrong person is a kind of sad; Yes, in the end, in today's society, the greatest happiness of each of us is that we can be in a person's right time, met a person of their right

So, what is called the real right person? It is two people who love each other deeply, each other's hearts and minds, and between the two of you can share everything, can do not distinguish between you and me, this person will take you as their companion in this life, will regard you as a treasure, more will spoil you as life.

After all, the highest level of "love" is "sharing", two people can share everything without any reservations, such as spiritual or material things, anyway, between each other is not to hide, nor to hide, share all The two of you can share everything without having to hide or conceal it.

Especially when you two people together, can take the initiative to "share" the following things, is to prove that you love the right person, the woman to the man is sincere, and the man to the woman is true love. The only way, the two of you love, will be more and more beautiful, the two of your feelings, will also be longer and longer

/2/

Share the various troubles in life

As we all know, the reality of our lives is this, not only will there be joy and sorrow, life is tasty and ill colorful, there is warmth like sunshine, and there will be dark times, there are sweet and delicious, there will be bitter and sour times. To be frank, life in the world, life will give us a lot of feelings, such as joy and sadness, and there will be bitterness.

When two people like each other, and love each other, each other can be "heart to heart", which is the so-called meaning of the interchange between love and love, but also the integration between the heart and the heart. To know real love, it is possible to let two people in love, in the emotional above the "heart has a rhinoceros a little bit of communication", between each other's feelings, but also in mutual understanding, mutual understanding of the basis of the above, you can feel the joy and sorrow between the two sides.

How to say it, is whenever they encounter bad or annoying things, are willing to be the first to tell or confide in each other know, this person as their feelings above belonging and trust; whenever they encounter happy or happy things, will also be willing to be the first to share or share knowledge, can let each other with their own to feel the joy and happiness together.

If "sharing" is known to the other party, to put it bluntly, is to share the joy with the other party, so that the two people can feel happy together, it is equivalent to becoming double happiness, and sharing sadness with the other party so that the two people can solve their problems together, it is equivalent to become half of the sadness. This is the beauty of love in the true sense of the word so that you are no longer alone inside, but have someone to share and share with.

So you should know that if the two of you can share the various worries in life, share the various joys and sorrows in each other's lives, more able to resonate in the emotional top, for each other, this is the so-called real sense of "love the right person", find their own life in the This is the real meaning of "love the right person", to find their own life "soul mate", from then on, so that their hearts can no longer lonely, no longer lonely, their hearts also have a place to rest.

/3/

Sharing free time

Easton Chan sang inside the song "Spending Long Years with You", "Companionship is the longest love confession."

In my opinion, companionship between two people is not only a way to warm up the relationship, but also an expression of love between the two parties. To know that only when a person loves another person, only willing to spend their precious time and energy to accompany each other, only willing to two people to enjoy the wonderful world of two people, only willing to be able to do the real sense of "accompany".

Because the two people are "true love", they are willing to spend their precious time and each other to stay together, even if the two of you do not do anything, on the daze together will also feel very relaxed and happy, more will feel very sweet and beautiful ah. After all, only when two people love more deeply, the more they will be willing to accompany each other, the more they will be willing to stick to each other's side, and even hate not to separate a second, two people can stay together all the time.

You should know that in the vast sea of people, between us and people the original two people is a parallel line of existence, only when the space and time between you two people have intersected, only from a parallel line into intersecting lines, from then on, the two people will have a connection and interaction. Only when you two people together, can do the real sense of sharing space and time, can you establish a truly intimate loving relationship, between you two can be considered each other's hearts as intimate and important people.

So, when you two people together, can do to share space and time between each other, can be considered the real meaning of love to people, not only true love but between each other can enjoy company, can love company, more will like two people accompanied by the beauty and sweetness brought together.

The original two people may be independent of each other, but because of the intersection between space and time, love is inseparable, love is inseparable, from then on, two people can no longer leave each other, can not let go of each other, more can not lose and leave each other. That is real "love" will only have the feeling.

/4/

Share your secrets

Psychology books mentioned above, in this stressful society, each of our hearts will be more or less equipped with some secrets, deep in the heart will have a vulnerable place, that is each of us will try to protect the secret and is not allowed to pry, more not allowed to be touched by others.

After all, the natural reaction of each of our bodies will protect their most vulnerable, or the most secret place, that is our kind of instinctive reaction, because of excessive care, so the heart. For the same reason, each of us deep inside, will be equipped with many, many secrets. Of course, can be called "secret" things, these secrets will certainly also go to extreme protection, more do not want to be around other people know, and do not want to be what other people see through or reveal.

To know the protection of their secrets or vulnerable places inside, that is instinctive protection of their own, do not want to let their secrets exposed in front of people, but the real love is to break all this because two people who love each other, are willing to take the initiative to share the deepest secrets or vulnerable places, no longer afraid of being around other people to peep, be around other people to touch.

This is not just a simple trust, but a willingness to entrust all of their inner secrets to each other, without reason 100% trust each other, that is the so-called "you have me, I have you" the real picture. After all, the real meaning of the above "love" is that you can let each other without half a secret, but also can sincerely get along and communication between the two sides can be open to each other.

And the secret or vulnerability of your heart, after informing each other, is willing to let each other take the initiative to care for you, and more will pity you, that is to say, even if you share the deepest secrets or vulnerability, the two people are not affected by any relationship, but the relationship will become more close and secure, and the deeper the two people love, the more deeply in love with each other, more will be a kind of indistinguishable from you and me, each other no longer The state of inseparability.

Maybe true love is like this, once one loves the right person, that is a kind of state that does not distinguish between you and me, does not mind sharing each other's inner secrets or urging place, also willing to let the beloved know all their everything, more willing and each other intimate to be able to blend into one.

In the Tang Dynasty, there is a line in "A gift to a neighboring girl" by Y Xinjiang: it is easy to find a priceless treasure, but hard to get a lover.

In short, in the world of emotions, it is not easy to meet, "true heart" is even more difficult to find, perhaps when a person has experienced some pain, some grief, before they meet their true love, meet the people they like, meet a real worth of their lifetime to keep together with the love. No matter how bitter it is, no matter how late it is, once you have met true love, it is a great blessing in your life.

It is true that in a relationship, whether a person truly loves themselves they can feel, but also can not be hidden, but also can not hide.

So friends know, what is called "love the right person" is, being willing to live a variety of worries, share their happiness and sorrow, willing to share space and time, and share each other's inner secrets and vulnerability, that is the real love, the real sense of love the right person, but also truly love their People, meet to cherish ah!