Be good to people, achieve "better"

Bullying the good and fearing the worse, bullying the soft and fearing the hard, is the normal state of human nature.

Want to prove themselves by bullying others, seemingly dominant, but standing in the "weak" position, by the "inferiority" emotions manipulated to make the pattern of small things.

For the sake of others at the same time, but also their own sake.

Instead of wasting time doing things that do not pay off, it is better to be kind to people, help each other, and achieve each other.

1、Be kind to others, be kind to yourself

It is mentioned in the Bible, "Release kindness to the world to obtain the salvation of your soul."

When you release kindness to the world, the world will also return kindness to you.

People who are full of thorns and defensive are the ones who can't stand endless kindness. In their view, people do everything with a purpose, someone can't be unconditionally good to a person.

Yes, no one will indeed be unconditionally good to a person.

Their kindness, mostly for "self-interest", thinking with others is convenient for their convenience, some kindness is a handful, do it is done, no need to care too much.

So, this seemingly "selfish" goodwill, is often the ablest to touch those hard-hearted people.

Life in the world, if there is no goodwill in the world, everywhere is the heart of the fight, that how terrible!

At that time, the world, I am afraid that the eyes are cold and barren, only to talk about interests, not talk about others, everywhere cold, everywhere conspiracy.

Think about the existence of goodwill will be better, at least there is time to relax, there are moments to feel the warmth, there is a space to enjoy the happiness ...... release goodwill, is to release the good.

Not all things can be linked to interests, some things want to do just because they want to at the time, just like the subway give way because the encounter felt that the help of the talent to help, not to get a compliment from others.

Be kind to others, be kind to yourself, I hope we can be kind people from the heart.

2, kindness in mind, help others as helping themselves

Previously watched a film against the idol drama trope, about some people after helping others, will fantasize that they help a rich boss, invisible to give the goodwill, can reap great wealth.

Unfortunately, in real life, you can see more ordinary people everywhere, helping others after getting more than a "thank you".

So no benefit is no help? I don't know when help and "interest" are linked, some people are afraid to do good to be blackmailed, and some people do good to "make money".

I heard a story about picking up a cell phone.

It is said that after someone picked up the phone, actually blackmailed the owner, and said not to give how much money will not return the phone, the result is too much money, so the owner called the police to find the police arrested.

Just picked up the phone, and handed it back to the owner, this is a good deed, but the greedy want to "earn" some money from it, the results are not worth the loss of their own made into the police station.

In contrast, there is a story of a man who found a cell phone, called the owner to tell him that the phone was in his hands to agree on a place to come and get it, who knew that the phone was connected, did not open his mouth to speak, the person on the other end of the phone cursed "do not want to pick up the phone and not return it, my phone but get a positioning".

A crackling scolding, so angry that the person who picked up the phone, casually bought a hydrogen balloon with the phone to fly.

This person is the opposite of the person in front of him, is trying to do good, but unfortunately met with people who do not believe that someone will pick up the money.

Help people invisibly help themselves, you find the phone will be returned to the owner, you can believe that when your phone is missing will be returned to you, anything is mutual, if you can not do yourself to pick up money, then what qualifications require others.

So, no matter when and where a handful of things can help to help, can not do to help report the police to the police.