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Are Women’s Reasons for Cheating Justified or Not?

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By Paul GriffithsPublished 2 years ago 4 min read
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Are Women’s Reasons for Cheating Justified or Not?
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Why is he cheating on women? Is it for the same reasons he cheats on men? Well, no. Men often cheat because of their physical instincts, while women often cheat because they can't find what they want at home. A man who has everything he wants, a beautiful wife, an active sex life, and a quiet home will not shy away from having sex with a woman he considers attractive.

In the case of women, things are completely different, women are looking for a relationship that will fulfill them on several levels, and the sexual plan does not occupy the first place. Men who wonder why they cheat on women next to them can find the answer if they analyze their behavior towards their partner.

The answer to the question of why women cheat finds their correspondence in the home or the relationship that the woman has. Most often women feel alone in the couple, either they do not have common topics that they can discuss with their partners or the partners in question are absorbed in activities that are not interesting for a woman, or they simply do not pay attention to them with which they were accustomed at the beginning of the relationship.

Women need communication in a relationship, and when it disappears and is stubborn not to exist despite all their efforts, they find relief in the arms of a man who either shares their concerns (most often a co-worker) or he is sexually interested in them and pays special attention to them to get to the point they want.

However, why do they cheat on women who have good communication with their partner, what other reasons urge them to cheat? Often women do not make a big difference between friendship and flirting.

They find a confidant, without realizing that he has feelings for them, and even more so without realizing that even they have feelings for him. Meetings every day with a co-worker, working overtime with him, serving lunch during the lunch break together will take her down a slope. Slowly - slowly you will feel the need to see your co-worker again, to discuss various issues with him, and slowly - slowly they will end up together in a hotel room.

Why cheat on women who have been cheated on? The answer is extremely simple in this case. Out of revenge. No woman will easily get over her partner's infidelities, never forget them, and will not leave them unpunished.

They feel entitled to have an adventure, to pay them with the same currency to the partners they trusted and who by their actions deceived their trust.

It is obvious why he cheats on women who do not have sex with their partners. First of all, because I can't find the courage to tell him in front of me that I don't feel fully satisfied with him. I know that the approach to the subject is embarrassing, it is based on preconceived notions that sex is not so important for a woman and they do not dare to confront their partner.

Women need sex just as much as men need it, they don't base a solid relationship on it, but they feel the need for a sex party that satisfies them as much as men do. But unlike men who feel entitled to raise this issue, women feel slightly embarrassed in the rare cases where they approach this issue.

So I find the easiest way in the arms of a third person. Of course, society will judge them and they will be considered easy women, but if we look coldly, this cataloging is not exactly correct.

Why cheat on women who seem to have it all? Simple, because they are looking for perfection because they know that there must be something better than they already have and they are trying to find it. In most cases, they will not even find it, or even worse, they will find something worse than what they already have. In this case, they will feel bad and realize that they were wrong, and if they are lucky not to find out, their secret will be buried deep.

There is another reason for the answer to the question: Why are women cheating? And surely we have all encountered this phenomenon. Boredom occurs in the couple after a certain period, the woman wants to experience something new and does not feel ready to pass on her wishes to her partner. She feels that he will consider her depraved if her desire to experiment is eccentric.

They thus fall into a new mistake, they will try something new with a new partner, with whom they do not know enough and with whom they are not used enough. And in this case, the women will return to their home, with a well-kept secret behind them.

Like men, women have their secrets and do not want to share them with anyone. The best way to get over it is to either give up the current relationship that will not satisfy you completely or to discuss with your partner all the problems that will grind you.

A third person does not solve anything in most cases but rather spoils everything you wanted to achieve, and this will only make you full of regrets and look at yourself in the mirror with different eyes. The lover is not a solution unless the partner is aware of the problems and does not want to solve them, but the most correct from any point of view is to give up the relationship that will not satisfy you, only then to start a new one.

This way you will not feel guilty in any way towards your partner.

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